My ex-girlfriend was manipulative, clingy as fuck and jealous. Yet I put up with all her shit because I loved her and she came from a tough background. I then notice her getting more and more distant until she tells me she wants to break up with me. I obviously feel like shit for a week until she recontacts me saying she wants to give us another shot. I accept. She then goes back to being distant for another week, so I get tired of it and ask her why she'd want to try again if she's just going to ignore me most of the time (and before anyone tells me she could have simply been busy, let me counter by saying that even though she refused to Skype with me anytime I'd ask her, she later openly showed me that she was Skyping with a (male) ''friend''). We then get in an argument, I tell her I can't do this anymore, and she blocks me on social media.
Deep down I know this is for the best, but how do I stop hurting for a girl that obviously doesn't give a shit about me?
>>18475927
Give it time. Sounds like it happened recently. You can’t get over someone that quickly unless you were ready to split up first. Go see friends, do fun things alone. Take up a new hobby. Travel. Come back and see how you feel.
Yeah. Happened on Thursday actually. I'm currently abroad for a month to visit some family so hopefully I'll be a new man by the time I get back.
You're not alone. I just broke up with my gf yesterday. Feelsbadman but it's for the best.
>>18476077
Story?
>>18476083
Going off to college (we're going to different colleges) in a few months and I don't want a LDR. She's going out of town for the 4th of July and then yesterday she threatened to go with her ex (she said it was a joke) if I didn't go with her to try and get me to go. This seemed manipulative and then I just broke up with her. I think I was over reactive, maybe I should have just said I didn't like that she said that but I've been thinking about breaking it off anyways so I just did it in the heat of the moment.
Went from fine one day to us breaking up in a snap. I did not expect it to be like it was. It's really tough going through it but once I get to college I'll be able to meet new girls. For now though I feel like shit and wish I would have at least broken up with her in a softer way but I guess that really doesn't matter. Just waiting to meet new girls