How do I know when to say "I love you"?

It's hard to say. How long have you been going out with her?

Personally in my last relationship I knew that I truly loved her when the thought of her not being able to come to a music festival with me was turning me off the idea of going altogether. I wanted to share that experience so much, and the fact I cared so much gave me the extra push needed to say it.

Turns out she was on the cusp of saying it like a month before I did

>>18475569
Only a few months, but yea I definitely do love her, I miss her if I don't see her every day. Just worried about her saying it back, maybe I shouldn't, not like she'll end things if I say it. My plan was to say it tonight when she comes over either way.

You don't, that's how you get lied to and treated like shit

You say it when you feel like she can say it back.

>>18475576
Exactly how many? It's different from relationship to relationship but I finally told my ex after three months of dating

But yeah what >>18475595 said, d'you think she feels for you as passionately?