Advice for best possible sex with girl

Golden rule: each girl likes something different and the only one who can properly explain how to pleassure her is herself. That said, the clit is your best friend, and you should go read about it right now, you just need to make her cum once during the entire session to consider your job done (yeah several orgasms is better but let's focus on the basics) and the easiest way to do it is through oral sex so learn how to lick a vagina.

Once she cums you can do whatever you want... almost literally so then you should instead focus on what you want to do and how you want to do it, you are supossed to enjoy it too, you know?

Also fucking relax, most of the time men who underperform is simply because they believe they will so instead just admit to yourself that you are no pornstar, once you're horny even awkwardness is a non-issue.

Get your dick cut
You'll regret that you haven't done it sooner

Focus on the preliminaries. Touch her pretty much everywhere. Take your time giving her oral and don't go robot your hands.

After you put your peepee in just give in. Let your wildest parts take over and just feel the moment. Connect with her. Look into her eyes and shit. Don't try to be a porn actor. If you cant cum just tell her how awesome it was afterwards. But don't ask her what she thought about it.

>>18474187 here
>look into her eyes and shit

I just think it's nice to let you know that you should NOT shit. Most girls aren't into this sort of stuff. It was just a manner of speaking

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Thank you for all this wonderful advice people of /adv/! It's amazing how much you deliver on a saturday.

I should add that sex gives me absolute 0 pleasure, so I have to fake my moans and enthusiasm. I only like sex because of the closeness, cuddling and verification it provides me. (Yeah, shittalk me all you want.)

>>18474209
*CONFIRMATION
Sorry English is not my native tongue.

More advice? Femanons, come out plz

Come on guys, don't leave me hanging here!

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>>18474177

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Should I inform her before or after she arrives that I can't cum from sex because of my condition? I'm scared of texting it to her because I feel like she might cancel right away then or just lose all her hype.

Femanons, for the love of fuck, help me out.

>>18474273
wear a condom and fake it. clench your pc muscles and make a groan. Then pull out and throw the condom away before she notices.

Also go see a doctor about your dick

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>>18474315
Good idea.

I am going to see a doctor about this. Sadly, since I live in Sweden, where we have in recent years imported as many as 300k imnigrants from Africa/Middle east, that all get free healthcare, the queue time for me is estimated at 4 months.

>>18474344
hahahahahahaha, damn that sucks, don't you have private doctors Or is it all government run?

>>18474460
Yes, but private doctors' customers are all upper-class and are therefore extremly expensive.

The governmental healthcare is completely garbage and useless. I'm fucked, lol. Better get a rabbi to rip my foreskin off.

To have truly mindblowing sex, you need to be very very perceptive of her reactions to the sensations you are giving her.

Move that way? She gets wetter and moans, keep doing it. Pull her har and she screams "YES!" Bingo.

The girl that I'm fucking now and I have almost a psychic connection in bed. The sex is so good that I can't even jerk off to porn anymore.

>>18474273
If she starts getting tired (will usually start saying, cum for me, etc), just say you don't always cum.

>>18474510
nah, you can gradually stretch it on it's own, but take it easy, I stretched mine a bit too much and now I have scar tissue on my foreskin. The doc would probably prescribe you a cream to make this process easier tho

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>>18474534
And how can I be ''truly truly perceptive of her reactions'' when It's the first time I fuck her and it's never gonna happen again if it's not mindblowing the first time? It's a paradox.

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>>18474540
She will still feed bad that I can't cum with her and she will never want to meet again. This has happened to me 4 times already with previous girls despite fucking the life out of them until my entire ripped body is covered in a thick layer of sweat. Fuck this world I guess.

>>18474557
Being empathetic?

I've fucked a few girls and had them tell me it was the best they've had.

It's a skill son, work on it.

>>18474562
Of course she will feel bad, she will either think she isn't hot enough or that her pussy is too loose. That's why you fake it. Although I honestly don't understand why you would want to have sex if you can't cum from it, in that case it's just cardio. Fuck go for a run or cross country skiing or what ever you people do.

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>>18474590

1. Because I want a fuckbuddy that I'll have ready and avaliable as soon as I get this disgusting useless skin on my dick cut off and thrown in a fire.

2. Because I love cuddling with girls naked. I can't help it. And I like giving them pleasure.

3. Because It gives me something to brag about to my online friends that get 0 pussy.

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>>18474588
Sigh...I know.
What are some of the things you do then? Give me some concrete advice.

It's hard for me to determine what feels good for the girl when I don't even know when my dick is inside here because the condom strangles any pleasure I could have had, along with my foreskin.

>>18474595
nigga I don't even know with you. Don't get jewed, cuddling is fine, but don't do it just to brag to faggots on the internet. While you are wasting this girls time, she could be missing happiness in the arms of someone who loves her for more than just her meat pocket

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>>18474187
>If you cant cum just tell her how awesome it was afterwards

>>18474134
>I'd like advice mainly from women
This is where you go wrong.

>>18474599
I wish I could give you concrete advice. One girl loved it when I fingered her, and came so hard from it. That first night sex was mediocre, but I ran with the fingering and had a great time with her.

Another girl enjoyed being fingered, but it didn't drive her crazy. I started fucking her, gently at first but could tell it wasn't totally doing it for her.. At this point we had a good enough connection, so I asked how can I fuck your brains out? She suggested a leather belt, and we went that route..

Now shit has gotten quite kinky, she likes to be tied up, have her face slapped you name it,..

>>18474618
Women for the most part won't admit how they want to be fucked.

Some decent advice itt. Do communicate what you do or don't like and make sure to listen when she tells you her likes/dislikes, or just ask her.

On the pleasing her front, definitely focus on the clit. Treat it how you would your dick. Don't be afraid to be rough but don't just slap at it and think that's the same as foreplay. Try oral if you like, but if you enjoy the connection and closeness i suggest using your hands so you can let your mouth play elsewhere.

As far as going about finding what she likes and doesn't, be playful. Don't be afraid to tease her a lil and pull back to make her say she wants it. It's supposed to be fun so have some.