I don't know what to do.
>22 yrs old
>been with gf for about 2 yrs and a half
>together thoughout uni
>we get along great, same values, sense of humor, great chemistry
>only thing is that we don't actually have much in common interests wise other than our degree and that we like to read
>we see eachother about twice a week usually due to travel etc
>recently feel like sex isn't as satisfying anymore
>not as interested in it, or feeling as strong towards her as before
>try to change things up but it doesn't really work, its only momentary
>start noticing other girls when out and about
>feel like shit because she's done nothing wrong, she's perfect and an amazing gf
>don't know what to do about this
Advice?
Start getting interested in her hobbies and vise versa.
Or try finding a new hobby together with her (Even hiking)
>>18472414
How is hobbies the issue? Surely this is more an issue of my attraction to her?
Besides, she doesn't really have hobbies besides reading, going to the movies and stuff. Maybe yoga but she doesn't really go to that anymore. Plus, she lives an hr away in a hard to reach area and I haven't got a car yet.
Help pls
What do you guys usually do when you're together (besides fucking).
>>18473031
Watch films, go out for food, spend time with our friends, go out somewhere like bowling or swimming. But mostly watch tv and films.
>>18472446
>>18472414
you should try it at least, that being it actually helps being compfy if you understand that you actually have things you like akin to what she does.
>>18472446
Hobbies and activities together are important to keep the attraction and spark.
>>18473514
>>18473506
Its never been an issue before though.
I guess we could try doing something together, but at the moment she has to either work, or pick up her sister from school in the day so we can't go out and do things in the daytime. We usually only get to see eachother at night.
Get out and do something spontaneous, have an adventure