I've recently gone through a very difficult few hours. I messaged a girl, admitting my attraction to her, that I 'like' her. She replied in a way that struck me. She said that she already knew, that she admired my courage, and asked about how long I had had this interest in her. Perfect settings, no? Cute little questions, possibility that she might, in fact, entertain the same feelings? I ruined that. In the worst way possible. I'm an idiot. A fool. I've made it appear that I no longer feel the same way (I do, currently) and that I had given up before anything had happened. I shut it down, out of fear and loathing. Out of uncertainty of myself. So, now, goddamn, I'm screwed. What to do? What to salvage? How?
>>18472336
>Perfect settings, no? Cute little questions, possibility that she might, in fact, entertain the same feelings?
Start by lowering your expectations. She may have been working on laying you down easily. Take a deep breath, and chill.
Now, what kind of plan do you want? You either tell the truth, or you don't. If you hide you like her, nothing is gonna happen. If you admit you like her, maybe she rejects you, maybe she goes out with you. Who knows?
But the fact you did this over text is kinda sad. As I said, don't hold up too much hope here.
>>18472336
You don't salvage that, you moron. Even if you admit that you did what you did because you were nervous/inexperienced, she'll assume you are an unreliable person who lacks control over his own actions. Just move on and enjoy being a lonely sperg.
>>18472348
This this this yes yes yes
>Perfect settings, no?
I read it the opposite way, as in she was trying to turn you down gently. But not enough context so, who knows.