I feel very uncomfortable expressing heterosexuality or don't know rather. As a male, it feels like a wrong idea to express heterosexuality.
I do see dudes expressing it on public but it always seems fucked up. I saw a couple in the mall, dude just reaches down a grabs a FULL handful of his girlfriends ass and squeezes her. I don't think I could ever do that. Let alone publicly.
So how exactly can dudes express heterosexuality without seeming weird? I just don't understand the dynamics of heterosexuality. Can someone enlighten me?
>>18472082
we live in a heteronormative society. unless you are giving the impression you are gay there is no reason to 'express' your heterosexuality. if you must just find a reason to bring up your ex girlfriend, or simply comment on how attractive a girl is.
>>18472089
I see. So what is it that straight single people do to show they are single and straight? Also, what about people who don't have exes?
Also, how would a male improve self esteem in regards to sexuality? Women can do shit like wear a thong or some "sexy" dress.
Me wearing a suit doesn't make me feel sexy or wanted more. In fact it makes me feel wage slavey. I don't like.
>>18472097
>to show that they are single and straight?
nothing, i literally just told you that in a heteronormative society you dont need to. people assume you are straight. thats it.
other then what I already said:
>talk about their ex's
>comment on / ask out attractive women
thats it really. again, they dont need to express their heterosexuality. if you are under the impression that women will be into you if you clarify you are straight, just flirt with them / ask them out
>>18472082
Op...you need an older brother or a dad jeez
>>18472192
Unfortunately I am an only child and my dad passed away. It's not like they teach this shit on school which is why I am coming to a bunch of anonymous potatoes for fuckibg help!
>>18472082
OP, most guys don't think about it from an onlookers perspective, they're only thinking about themselves and their gf.
When I was with my last gf, I wanted to touch her ass pretty much every minute we where together, but I would keep it in check out in public. Some guys don't have the same impulse control or they don't care what other people think.
OP why do you even care about expressing it? Who are you trying to impress or gain approval from by expressing it?