Libido

>>18471672
>depo
>mirena

I dont know what is your end goal, but almost all hormonal birth controll affect girls sexuality IN A BIG WAY. Just use google and read some stories about girls who finally arent afraid of getting pregnant but also dont want to have sex anymore.

Also depo is heavy shit. 3 months off is just its basic re apply time. It can take like year after last shot to be finally fertile again. I know girls here might scream at me, but your best bet is to be like 1 year bc free.

Get rid of that implant and see if anything changes in few months. Dont fall for society telling you to never have babies or that swallowing pills / getting injection is natural and normal. It just generates profit.

Can you even orgasm? Get wet properly? Also
>why do you do bc when you have no desire to fuck your bf?
Try condoms or non penetrative sex.

I am on birth control because I love making love with my boyfriend, and I love to please. And I enjoy getting pounded so hard I can't breathe afterward.

Yes I orgasm easily with penetrative sex, I don't get much pleasure when my clit is played with. No I can't get wet "properly".

I am also on birth control because I want to have a baby someday with him, start a family, but not now. I'd love to just use condoms because then I wouldn't harmfully alter my body, but I feel using condoms alone isn't a secure birth control method. Please enlighten me on this.

I mainly just wanted to know if there's anything that can psychologically help me be more in the mood.

Do you really reccomend just getting off all hormonal birth control?

>>18471984
1. Learn how to give people (You).

2. Wtf
>I love making love with my boyfriend
>enjoy getting pounded so hard
>orgasm easily
I see no problem with libido. Why do you think you have bad libido?

>more in mood
I am not sure what do you mean by this? Because you described ideal sex life? Just the wet thing, but that can be solved easily with lubricant.

Why do you think you have 0 libido?

I got a Nuvaring, and that latches directly on your G-spot. That's still hormonal contraception but you knowing how good that feels, helps to get in the mood quicker I think. Also try to get a vibrator or massage wand and enjoy yourself every night, that's what made me a horny pervert at least.

>>18472401
Because I was posting from my phone while on a break at work, my primary way of posting. There is always a sense of urgency and rushing and usually no time to post. Ive been on the chans for years, you think I don't know how things work? Don't think an anon's a newfag just because they slip up once

Problem with libido is i want to fuck but i have no passion or desire. I could care less if i never masturbate or have something inside me for the rest of my life. I'm asking for advice on how to fix that.

Looks like you didn't read my first post, I included reasons as to why I probably don't have high sex drive. Lack of privacy and hormonal BC

>>18472416
That's a cool idea, but it's still hormonal contraception. I do have a vibrator but all it does is vibrate my clit into oblivion. Then i am wholly disinterested in anything sexual

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>>18472487
How is your cycle op? My gf is horny only at certains times.

Also girls are supposted to be reactive. Boys have build up libido. When we go like 7 days without fap the balls kinda hurts and boner is almost constant.

If you get into the sex thing when your bf innitiates, imho you are fine.

Still my bets are on the horminal bc.

Alco combination of condoms and counting fertile days should be more than enough. But it all boils down to what are you willing to risk in order to gain libido.

Have you even read side effects? Really just google
>depo provera libido
It is full of stories of 0 sex. And it lasts for months.

Also i have very stupid question op:
How do you know that you even have libido? There are plenty of girls who never ever liked sex and used it only as tool to hook boys. Like was you ever horny? Or are you on BC from 13?

There are articles that girls bodx should went through puberty without BC so the body can do al the funny things, but often girls gets BC "too soon".

Were you ever horny in the past? Are you sure that you arent reading too much porn literature?
>maybe you were born this way

But seriously, try full year without additional hormones in your body. Also arent you under/overweight? What is your diet?

>>18472530
if you're taking depa provera or a lot of other birth controls it can actually completely mkae you feel devoid of wanting to have sex.
I can't remeber but it is actually the stuff or very similiar to the stuff the give inmates to chemically castrate them.
As well as causing terrible depression.
honestly it's a really painful thing to get put in, but the iud is great and works for ten years.

>>18472530
Can confirm. Before I was on any birth control (as in, before age 24) there were just certain times of the month where I wanted dick more than usual.

>get into the sex thing when your bf innitiates
Yes this is usually how it goes. Sometimes I initiate it and love to be on top because it reverses the roles of how they usually are

>Have you even read side effects for depo provera?
Yes I have but (at the time) felt the benefits outweighed the risks so I went along with it

>stupid question
I can say I never used sex as a tool for attention. I don't know how to answer if I know that I've had libido or not. I started any form of birth control at age 24. It was the depo shot. I was on that for 9 months I believe. Got sick of the side effects and quit in April to get the mirena IUD

>>18471672
No, this isn't hormones. Nothing is wrong with you. It's ok to be ace. Some of us just don't care that much about sex. Be who you are. Don't become something your not just because you want to please someone else. I swear to you, you will regret it. Be open with your BF.