I'm meeting a friend in person for the first time in a couple days. I've known her for years online, and it's nothing romantic or anything like that (she's already married with kids), but for whatever reason, I still feel nervous as fuck. Like I'm going to say or do something stupid. What should I do?
>>18470661
are you a dude?
this is fucking weird mang
>>18470661
Oh man, I just did this exact thing last weekend. Was the first time meeting an online friend for me.
1) You're going to be fine. You will feel uncomfortable and awkward and then you will have a good time.
2) Tell her. Say something along the lines of "I'm nervous about meeting in person, I feel like I'm going to be awkward / embarrass myself / [insert whatever you're feeling here]". If you share that, then if it does end up that way, it's easier to shrug it off, laugh about it, etc. Assuming this person is not an asshole, they will understand.
3) Have any activities planned? Sometimes it helps to have an idea of what you're going to do together, so you have a mental out if just sitting and talking is a strain.
Have fun!
>>18470661
you don't LOVE her right
She most likely doesn't love you so
why worry, it won't really Go anywhere y'know