Long story short was with someone for three years, he left me a year ago but during this time apart he's been pushing and pulling telling me he wants me, doesn't know if he loves me, then he loves me, etc. I'm still very in love with him and we've been great friends before we got together years ago. I understand that he's no good for me but I can't stop missing him and I only see him in every person I even remotely have interest in.
There was no cheating and neither of us have been with anyone else if that matters. I want to be free but I don't know how to set myself free without closure I know I will never have.