I have no idea how to talk to my family about moving.

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I've been planning my move from Hawaii to California with my significant other for about a year and won't be actually moving until a few years from now. However, I am debating about moving in with my friends in Washington within the next 2 years. ANYWAY I live with my parents and my family is the type to just stay where they are and if they wanted to move out of state, it never came to fruition. The economy is so bad in Hawaii that it would be hard to just move somewhere within this state so it's either stay here or move out. California is one of the few places I can work in the career I want to work in and we've done a lot of planning and saving for this move the only concern is convincing my immediate family (basically I have 2 dads, one very overbearing mom, an uncle and a grandmother that I would need to talk to) that I'm ready to move. I feel like they will throw me a bunch of reasons why I shouldn't like I didn't plan enough(I have) or ask me why would I want to move. Right now I'm in college and whenever I talk to them they assume that I'm just going to stay here for like half my lifetime. I don't think they'll be very happy when I finally break the news because I've tested the waters and they don't like the idea of me moving. I feel depressed and stuck here and I've felt this way for a very long time so I would really, really love to move somewhere else. Whatever their opinions are about me moving, I'm still going to move but their emotional support is very important to me and I just need help on how to sit down and talk to them about it.