Share stories how you got rejected

>Co worker
>smiles a lot
>REAALLLLYYYY cute and hot
>build up the courage for MONTHS
>I heard she's about to leave this job
>Gathering my courage
>She's now at break
>I go to her
>"Hey, wanna go out sometime?"
>"Sorry, already have a bf"

She was really cool about it later on. She was sure I hated her or something up until then (despite the fact i'm friendly as fuck).

It was the first time I asked a girl out too. The rejection wasn't as bad as I thought it would, but that's because I usually don't fall for bitches.
Hell, it even built me up for the future. I felt HAPPY that I even tried.

Girl rejected me once and almost called the police, because I only said "Hi, how are you"

I worked at this small restaurant, a luncheonette.

a regualr customer would come in and me and her had some decent convos, nothing flirtatious but always pretty relaxed. I thought she was cute, she seemed to be pretty cool with me and a coworker thought she was digging me too.

I say, hey we should get together sometime at school, we went to the same college, and she kinda hesitated but agreed and gave me her number.

the next day when we were supposed to meet i txt her and she said she had things to do and was busy but maybe another time.
later that day she came into the store i worked at, and talked to me as if nothing happened. I brought it up and she said yea shes swamped with so much school work and we both kinda left the issue alone.

she stopped coming in to the store after awhile.

oh wow i just posted this a few minutes earlier too


>she says yes to a date, but needs a month
>ask her if she's still down for a date a few days before it
>"Sorry Anon, I need another week"
>The next week comes around
>Ask her the day of the date if she's still down
>"Yeah but I'm only going be able to go out for an hour."
>u w0t
>Okay I guess
>Ten minutes later, she says she's going to need another week
>Ask her if she's actually interested
>She replies that she didn't actually want to date anyone and was going to tell me when we actually went out.

>>18468675
sucks man. I hate the bullshit.

women think lying and giving false hope is somehow virtuous but they dont get how aggrivating and painful it is to be left hanging. to have hope that maybe things will work out. Then comes that day where you understand it was all just bullshit.

Dont women get that a rejection is way better than false hope? its easier to recover from a direct blow of rejection than it is to have your hope chipped away by time.

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>be me
>see some girl that I liked
>really gotten into her
>chatted with her, really wanted to meet up with her
>she was a good artist, just like me
>first time...I feel in love in years
>be another day
>See her alone, looks upset
>ignores me, and says things that are negative about me
>ask her what's up
>got mad because I said one thing about God
>leaves me there while people pass by
>mfw
3:16

>cutie guy approaches me
>iamexcite.jpg
>small talk for a bit
>he asks for my number
>give him my work number because my cell phone is broken
>I never hear back from him
>take solace in petting our lost and found dogs

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>crushed after this Croatian dude who went to my church and school.
>We got along okay, not friends but we could laugh together and talk about things
>Getting close to homecoming dance, he has no date and neither do I.
>friends say "it's 2005, girls ask guys out as much as guys do."
>I ask him out in private conversation in a locker hall way
>he actually busts out laughing and rejects me
>timidly ask if he'd like to get coffee or something
>he turns and walks off

>I am wrecked
>went to class, and towards the end tell her my rejection story.
>feeling bad, she tells me of another of her friends who was also completely shut down, a guy
>informs me who he hangs out with after school, and that maybe we could go to homecoming together as friends in miserable rejection
>she tells him over lunch, and between classes finds me and introduces us
>both he and I have an awkward spaghetti encounter, but overall positive.
>swap #s and AIM names (Kek, AIM)
>decide to go to homecoming together as suggested by our mutual friend, just to forget about our rejection and have a good time.

Fast-forward 11 years later to today. The dude I eventually went with to homecoming and me are now married, been married 5 years and are expecting our first child.

In a way, guess I was glad 5o be rejected and so was he?

>>18468723
nice for you lady.

we're here to sulk in our misery not hear about someone who ultimately found happiness.

Even Chad gets rejected on the reg.

Women are picky. You're never going to make it if you're afraid of rejection.

>>18468738
I was showing how rejection isn't the end of the world, how likely the person who rejects you likely wasn't going to be a person to have a fulfilling relationship with in the first place.

The guy I was crushing after was slav, and typically they don't treat their women well. My husband was rejected by some chick who started chasing medical students in college, married one, and he quit in his residency. She is in the process of divorcing him, even though he is a nurse practitioner and they have a baby together. So she was/is a gold digger.

>>18468738
ey fuck you mang

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>>18468756
>The guy I was crushing after was slav,

cyka bylet

>>18468753
Nor Op, but I just hate getting rejected over and over again.

Why talk/strike up a conversation with another pretty girl if a lot of pretty girls >>18468753
Nor Op, but I just hate getting rejected over and over again.

Why talk/strike up a conversation with another pretty girl if a lot of pretty girls reject you constantly ?

How do you even know if she wants you to talk to her ?

The only realistic answers I can think of are when you looks at you first and smiles or if she's looking at you and "playing with her hair".

>>18468756
Can you elaborate on your friend there?

You mean to tell us that he got a nursing degree, finished medical school, got a doctor of medicine degree, and then, instead of finishing a 2-8 year paid (50k/yr) residency (which, compared to undergrad, and medical school, is literally the easiest part of medical school - where you can actually apply what you learn in a medical setting), he went off and did 3-4 years of nursing work that pays the same amount of $, and then went and did a 2 year masters of nursing (and putting himself into more debt) to do the same thing a family doctor does for like $40/hr less, despite already having a 'doctor of medicine' degree? Does he not know that family medicine residency is only two years long? Then you're out there making the big bucks?

Does your friend get at least a little bit more money from his employer for having his MD degree? That's so fucking weird.

Legitimately asking out of curiosity.

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>>18468918
He could not get a match in match day and was already a nurse practitioner before medical school. He did it again, then was in residency for almost a year when I guess he just didn't like it. He had a much higher salary as a specialist (oncology) practitioner than resident, got abused by others and even RNs at his new hospital, and just decided to drop trying to be an oncologist. Honestly don't think he should have gone after being a doctor in the first place. Maybe she pressured him.

What I don't understand is that he still makes $128k a year (maybe more with an MD), and she wanted a bigger house than their 4 bdrm 2 story house on almost 2 acres. He is a family friend through my dad's work and is nice, and pretty much all mutual friends hate her. So I guess my husband got lucky with her rejection.

>>18468873
Aaaanuuu cheeki breeki

>>18468528
>See cute girl in library, studying with friend
>Wait until it looks like they are taking a quick breather; they are both looking at their phones instead of their laptops/notebooks/books
>Go up to her, open with a joke, ask her what she's taking
>Her friend says in a pissed off voice voice, "We're studying, if you don't mind."
>Say "sorry" and walk away

I don't mind that they were too busy to talk to me. I just think it would be nice if she didn't say it in such a mean voice. I can understand being pissed off if they already asked me to leave, and I ignored them, but that was the first thing she said to me.

I would have also preferred to have heard it from the hot girl I was actually hitting on.

>>18468691
>women think lying and giving false hope is somehow virtuous
>Dont women get that a rejection is way better than false hope?

they don't think they're giving you false hope.

most women will not flat out say something because they're afraid of how others will react. when they say "maybe some other time" they mean "I'm hoping you will forget about this and take the hint, because I'm afraid if I flat-out reject you, you will do something crazy like shoot up a grocery store" because you come off like the type of guy who would lose their temper.

it varies with people. some women will be more willing to reject someone outright. some won't. if you find it's happening to you more often than not, you should probably evaluate how you come off.

>>18469091
I know that there is a problem with entitled males who can't handle rejection, but I'm skeptical that this is the sole cause of women not rejecting people outright and speaking in ambiguous code.

I feel like a lot of the time, they are aware that you are not a threat and won't stalk them and murder them in their sleep for rejecting you. They just do it because it's easier for them and they know nobody will call them out on it.

>>18469103
I just said it varies with people. it's not the sole reason but it's a huge one.

>>18469103
>they are aware that you are not a threat

Well it's good that you're a mind reader I guess. Although, since you can read minds, it seems odd that you would be persistent in asking out girls who you know aren't interested in you.

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>>18468667
I would have dropped it the second I noticed her hesistate. At least thats what a real nigga would do but hey, you do you

>>18469091
of course it varies, and yea I guess there are those who do it out of fear that their rejection could be really impactful to a guy.

but I think that is a very fringe minority.

My assumption is simply that they think theyre doing something good, they think theyre being nice and "letting you down easy" but they dont get how much worse it is for a man to have this idea linger, this empty hope.
sure, a guy shouldnt get hung up on one girl, duh, but you know what helps a guy realize that a lot quicker? If the girl he asked out said no thanks. OR at the very least, if shes gonna bullshit a better lie would be " sorry i have a boyfriend" if shes single that is.

saying she has a boyfriend also keeps the unwanted guy away and it helps him out because he feels accomplished in trying but knows that pursuing the girl is pointless. its win win.

>>18469611
dubs of wisdom.

yea, i shouldve but I guess I just felt the need to try.

>>18468756
>>18468865
I was honestly just messin around with my comment >>18468738
lol

>>18468707
Are you sure you didn't talk to OP >>18468528 ?

>>18469057
maybe you shoulda just ignore the rude girl and looked at the one you wanted, let her say something

>>18469707
Eh, I was thinking that maybe the hot girl was too polite to tell me to fuck off even though she wanted to, and her friend was just more assertive and stepped in n for her, so I thought it better to leave being the polite person in the interaction, rather than continuing to bother then after it was made clear that they were busy. Makes me look less needy, anyway. If she was into me, then I'm "the cute guy who my friend twat-swatted me from" rather than "the creep who wouldn't leave us alone," so I leave with the upper hand, anyhow.

It is possible that the friend was bitter because she's used to being passed over for the hotter friend.

>>18468756
Leave it up to a woman to answer a rhetorical joke.

>friends with guy for a while
>get along really well
>he flirts with me
>gain enough courage to ask him out
>'sorry anon, white girls aren't really my type'
>see him going out with an asian girl few weeks later

>>18470289

Was he white himself?

>>18470331
Yes lol. Later on I found out he was extremely liberal to the point of having white guilt (I'm assuming). So we wouldn't have worked out anyways.

>>18470289
I'm into white girls, if you're interested

>>18470350
Smooth haha

More grill rejection stories?

>11 years old
>have neckbeard fat friend with glasses
>confesses to me
>I reject him and say I like another guy
>he tells everyone in class
>guy that I liked says he hates me
>guy that I like was atcually in love with my best friend

>turn 14
>total tomboy
>some new kid in school
>really skinnyfag and tall but super cute smile
>get the courage to talk to him
>he says ''I'd maybe date you if you were more girly, but even then not 100%''
>le crushed but ok

I got rejected many more times with like 3 more guys as I got older, I was the type of person who searched for love, pretty stupid because I feel the humiliation and cringe still.
I was fairly young but from there I improved my looks and became more social, yet I had so much fear of rejection that I promised myself to never make the first move again. The guy I'm with now is very loving and caring.

I didn't even get to be rejected. I had like 2 seconds to ask him out, and he just said "Ok bye!" and walked away fast. All I could mutter before that was literally "ah-". Oh man... I'll get to see him in two months. Hope he's still single by then.

>in college, fall for only guy friend I've ever had
>had seen the movie Amelie, got inspired to go all out on quirky type of confession
>didn't realize how abnormal that would be irl, probably scared the
bejeezus out of him
>no reply for 6 months, later he told me "be urself"
>very depressed for the first 4 years after
>wrote a graphic novel about it that got me a job offer
>didn't take the job because still in school
>did not tell guy about this novel, because that would be even creepier
>now 30, unemployed, and never had a bf

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>>18470340
Bullet status: dodged

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>>18468528
>be me
>cute Desi girl in by botany class at the community college
>ask her to go see a movie
>she says yes but times don't work out
>try again next week
>says yes
>doesn't work out again
>don't know if she's avoiding me and doesn't want to hurt my feelings or really just doesn't have time
>try again next week
>says yes
>actually fucking meet at a mall I've never been to, to see a movie
>meet her after walking around looking for her for 10 minutes
>start walking towards the movie theater
>think to myself "do I have to pay for her ticket? I don't even know if she is in to me"
>ask her "So this is a date right?"
>......
>uhhhh what?
>no, anon I thought we were just hanging out.....
>ohshit.jpg
>awkwardly walk around the mall with her awkwardly trying to convince her to date me
>error: success.exe not found
>eventually say goodbye after 10 minutes of that
>get lost in the parking lot
>spend 15 minutes walking around looking for my car getting more and more frustrated as I what just happened
>find my car
>drive home
>mom says "hey anon how did it go? How come your home so early?"
fun stuff

I got rejected in highschool and ever since I've closed off my heart. I forgot what it felt like to be in love, I'd like to fall in love again but I don't know if I can. From that day forward, I stopped giving a fuck about anything.

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>>18468723
>there is a expecting mother on 4chan
post belly or your a faggot basement dweller

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>>18470653
>I got rejected in highschool and ever since I've closed off my heart

>debilitating fear of rejection
>never approach women
>alone forever

Maybe I should kill myself

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>Girl in a small town.
>Introvert and pretty nerdy.
>Her favorite pokemon was Gengar.
>She was like a fwb after much grooming and cuddling her.
>This goes on for over a year.
>She gets a bf because we were never official despite my attempts to make it that way.
>Tried to be just friends.

Maybe its my weakness of character or I'm a piece of shit or something but, I couldn't make that compromise no matter how hard I tried

pic related. She inspired the words around the template.

>bring 3 roses to girl
>shes having someone over

was pretty humiliating but alright, ive found others

>>18468528
A guy I really liked invited me to a coffee via fb, since I am autistic I asked him if he could ask next week because I was having a really bad week.

I didn't realize that it would sound like I wasn't excited or something like that

He never asked again, I couldn't ask back for the life of me. Then he started treating me like a friend and started using the word friend when we texted but with real force implying I was just a friend and so on.


It really hurt but it's my fault, still. I AM and idiot and a little tad autistic.

I think I will find someone that will be able to stand my autismo some day. It's just that I'm really dense and also a coward and that's a bad conbination heh

I'm sorry though, I really am
I really reaaaally licked to bicker with you

;_;

>>18470874
fuck dude. You should have cut her off early.

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>be a social outcast and try to avoid social interaction at all costs

>tfw find another social outcast whom i can connect with and have a fun time with

> I plan to ask them out, since I considered us meant for eachother.

> tfw they start slowly and slowly stop hanging out with me

> tfw they tell me they got a boyfriend

> be fucking pissed, not only are they my only friend and dating someone else, but since their partner came along they just fucked everything we had together up

>>18470877
Shit anon, I feel you. I was the same way. add me on kik if you wanna chat, I'mm pretty introverted and emotionally fucked too. Need friends anyways.

Kik: Voxxey

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>>18468738
>REEEEEEEE PEOPLE SHOULDN'T BE HAPPY AND HAVE POSITIVE EXPERIENCES REEEEEEEEEE

>start having a crush on this girl in the same class
>it's like a bad writer came up with us as a couple: two loners one tall the other short one a programer (and other computer related stuff) the other a artist
>one night start thinking about maby asking her on a date or something
>realise that i'm an autistic, antisocial, uncharismatic piece of shit whose only friendship started off as a bully, bullied relationship (him being the bully)
>conclude that her first romantic experience shouldn't be with someone like me
>tfw you reject yourself

>>18470653
You are being completely dramatic.

>>18470877
Maybe he interpreted it as being rejected and just wanted to not seem/feel like a loser, so he treated you like a friend. Did you try to invite him for a coffee yourself?

>>18472541
>>18470877
Ah nvm I saw you didn't.
>I couldn't ask back for the life of me
Just do it, gurl

>>be in college
>>working on project with girl crushing on
>>invite her to my place to work one evening
>>work up the nerve to ask her out (total introvert)
>>says she has a bf, they are going to get married after she graduates
>>ughhhh

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>be in club
>two blonde chicks comes over, asks if they're free to sit next to me
>one of them get a snap from fwb
>Me: ''Hey, you wanna fuck me?''
>Her: ''mmmmmmm no''
>Me: Ok
>*I leave*

Still pretty hilarious in my head.

>>18468540
That's the spirit man. You took a gamble and even though it didn't pay off you went for it anyways. Keep a it bro, you'll make it

>>18468528
>Be 7th grade
>Decide to ask out girl I like
>Whole grade backs me up
>Ask her
>"Sorry, I'm not into boys yet"
>went home from school
>cried and watched a Godzilla movie
Now I have a big tittied and super rich Colombian gf and all the Godzilla merch I could want so it all worked out in the end

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>supervisor at college
>helping me with my thesis
>qt
>think she's just average but one day she takes off some of her overly layered clothes
>massive bazongas
>intense eye contact
>our final session ends, she seems oddly disappointed?
>I am completely oblivious

>much later realizing this happened
>get high on caffeine because I'm a moron
>send an e-mail saying how I had feelings for her and embarrass myself
>she replies back saying how this e-mail is "inappropiate" and she "regret I wrote it"
>delete my first e-mail, of course it saves and attaches to hers so it's there forever
>e-mail back saying I'm delirious and apologize
>delete e-mail from my inbox
>feel so ashamed I cry myself to sleep for a week
>still ashamed now
>been suicidally depressed at night for a while now
>this was closest I came to having a gf, a kiss, or getting laid in almost 25 years of my pathetic existence

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>>18468528

>I work at the college
>always chat up this friendly 6/10 girl who cashiers in the cafeteria
>she always comes in with nice jackets with a rustic look
>my style.jpeg
>semester is almost over, decide to make my move
>nonchalant, "hey, what are you doing after this-"
>cuts me off "I have a boyfriend."
>"... I was just going to see if you wanted to get a study group after..."
>we don't even have a class together
>I aimed low to increase my chances, wtf.
>she's bowlegged, don't want it now.

>chick from El Salvador starts working with me at job
>shes allright in my taste. 5/10 but so far has 8/10 booty
>couple weeks go by and she starts conversating more in English and seems happy/not as nervous that's when she first came into the company (guess like all new employees figuring out comp culture first couple of days/wks)
>mentions she has no bf
>couple wks later i ask for phone number
>she starts laughing like a maniac
>somehow asking her for a number is funny when i just said "hey can i have your number?"
>not worth it. She is too immature and is only 18.
>again she is a 5/10

>>18470648
Jesus fucking Christ that was painful to read, experiencing that cringefest must have been awful.

>>18470648
Never take someone to a movie on the first date unless you enjoy not getting to know them more.

Jokes on you guys, I have never been rejected because I lack the courage to even try and escape from the soul crushing loneliness that dominates every waking moment of my miserable life.

>>18468528
>I got rejected in highschool and ever since I've closed off my heart. I forgot what it felt like to be in love

i think you shouldnt give up just because u got rejected in highschool , teens arent like adults dumass

>>18470938
Thank you anon, but I don't have kik

>>18472553
He is dating someone now so I'm here trying to finish my dissertation and trying to meet new people.

I realized I really really liked him, a little too much I think but I have to get my degree and work and take care of me at the same time.

It's really hard knowing he is dating now,
It's been two months already and I still think daily about it but thinking about it, I don't think he liked me that much

but I hope that dork is happy and I can find another precious person like him

Sometimes I think patience is all we need