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A few years ago I got to know this guy, fell for him aften a while and we developed a friendship. after a year or so I confessed and he basically shut me down with "dont know how i feel" etc. We remained friends, but the subject came up later and he still "didn't know how he felt". After that he sort of faded out of my life, never answers messages anymore, so there's no way for me to get a proper closure.
Is there a way for me to move on after all these years? Haven't seen or spoken to him for months so out of sight out of mind obviously doesn't work.
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>>18468488
This guy obviously didn't want friendship. He moved on. You'd better move on, too.
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>>18468488
>Is there a way for me to move on after all these years?
You have to accept that by his actions he has shown you that he doesn't want you in his life. I had a similar experience with a girl whom I really liked and who had vocalized that she liked me too. The problem was that her actions always betrayed what she said and I hung around too long waiting for her to honor her words. I should've walked away a lot sooner and never looked back. It's only been months but I passed up many opportunities to get with other girls waiting for her to come around.
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>>18468611
Sorry to hear about that, it sucks. Through, I am fully aware that he doesn't want me in his life, my question was more how do I move on? Like, are rebounds actually effective?
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