I wanna ask her out, but I have no clue for appropriate dates. I thought about drinks & a movie in one of our houses, but I don't want to take her to mine because I have no door to my room and my house looks like trash (not poor enough to be called poor, but not middle class either)
Where do I take her, what do I do? (In case she says yes)
Do you live in a big city?
>>18467842
I had this situation recently anon, just have some conversation topics ready and go for a drink, should just be casual, after that if you've both got the evening free go get a meal or go to the cinema, or some shit. I was pessimistic about the cinema cos it is just being sat there but can surprisingly help build chemistry if eye contact and body language is played right
>>18467848
>>18467871
Yeah in a big city, but everything involving the cinema or shit like that is incredibly expensive (A movie ticket is around 12$ and buying snacks and shit is 5$+++), and I would prefer a more intimidate date anyways.
I'm in a tight situation anons, and I suck at the romance field.
Do you guys think a regular ol' picnic might do me a favor?
>>18467842
Go somewhere small and inexpensive where you can talk to her without being interrupted. Don't go to the movies my dude, you can't talk to her. Women just want to go to have fun and look hot.
>>18467923
Care to offer such places? Maybe if you could state such places I might find something around me.
And what do you think about something lowcost like a picnic?
>>18467993
Maybe a cafe for coffee, a picnic does sound nice, going hiking, maybe taking her to some kind of small festival in your town. A local park will do just fine.
>>18468018
Thanks! I'll try my luck later on today.
>>18467887
Could just get drinks and shoot pool, helps break the ice having some sort of activity to do.
Anyway good luck dude
>>18467842
Just go for a coffee and take a walk, do live either near a seafront or a high street?
>>18468153
High street, and yeah I'll invite her to coffee right now. ITS TIME TO MAN UP.
>>18468316
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAnnnnddd asked her to go for coffee.
kill me before she answers please.
Recommending something thrilling and active, like climbing or some shit.
Stress will increase attraction, biologically confirmed.
>>18468322
Best of luck, man!! Cheering for you here. I hope she says yes and you will nail that date
>>18468018
I'm not that anon or OP but I was wondering, how do you ask someone to just go walk in the park? Do you just ask them to hang out? I mean Idk how to word it because it sounds awkward (even though it makes perfect sense as a date).
>>18468322
>>18468339
SHE SAID YES AND NOW WE ARE SETTING THE DATE OF THE DATE AWOIDNQWEOIFWIOENF
>>18468330
Not something we have around here, and I'm pretty sure she's not that type of girl.
>>18468341
Good question. I think it's "wanna go out, maybe for a walk around the park", although it sends off "heavy" vibes.
>>18468371
I'm happy for you anon. Have fun on your date.
>>18468371
I'm proud of you lad
I always take my first dates on a hike up a mountain. It always leads to a lot of touching, due to grabbing her hand, helping her up rocks/cliffs, etc. We build rapport by talking/laughing the whole time and they always make out with me once we reach the top of the mountain overlooking a lake. Best of all it's free.