Actually afraid of intimacy?

>>18466790
23 year old male with the same problem

>>18466790
30+ year old male here. Have you had sex OP? If you have had sex and still are afraid of intimacy I was just like you at your age. Somewhere in my mid 30s fucking got a whole lot better. I have no idea what changed man but hopefully you will be in the same boat as me and grow into it. Best of luck!

>>18466808

I have not had sex. Sex is weird to me. Like I can imagine the act of people having sex but I can't imagine ME having sex. I feel like I don't get horny enough to actually penetrate a woman or something. It feels like a chore almost to do that. Which is a horrible outlook on sexual activity.

>>18466838
Eh, maybe your are A sexual? Also, maybe you should see a doctor to make sure your hormones aren't out of wack?
Lots of women are a turn off for me looks or personality wise but once I find one I connect with I usually want to have sex.

>>18466889

I don't think I am asexual because asexuals don't masturbate right?

>>18466900
Apparently according to google they do.

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You're basically me but male. I fantasise about intimacy more than sex though. Sometimes I make my arms numb by lying on them and cuddling myself.

22 year old male here same issue i can imagine others having sex and masturbate to porn but as soon as i imagine myself having sex i get really weirded out and turned off. Doesnt matter if im almost done if i imagine myself doing anything sexual or intimate i just cant continue. Like even the thought of cuddling freaks me the fuck out. I really have no advice op but just letting you know your not alone. Maybe you could find a platonic relationship and take it step by step but good luck finding a willing woman.