So I was dating this guy for about 10 months , did typical relationship stuff, met his family and he met mine. He used to ask me a lot if I had feelings for him and we both told each other that we did. But around may I found out he was talking to another girl and when we both confronted him he told me (idk about the other girl) that he doesn't know what he wants . I stopped talking to him for a week but now he's always reaching out to me and talking to me like before and flirting . but I know he's still talking with the other girl. Should I just give up on him?
>>18466351
yes, you are just a placeholder girl. A backup. been in the same situation
>>18466358
And the thing is, before I stopped talking to him he said that he doesnt want to do anything intimate with me for awhile but still hangout sometimes because maybe he will "change" during it that time
Lmao
>>18466351
>Should I just give up on him?
Yep
Technically you already gave him a "Do you want to be exclusive" talk when you confronted him with that girl and he just proved he's got no interest in that and just wants to pump&dump. Keeping him around is a risk for your future relationships but if you really feel he makes you happy in someway...Get devilish and trap him with a baby.
That aside, that girl is QT OP. Thanks for introducing me
>>18466376
That was enough of a clue. A girl did the very same thing to me and kept changing her mind even AFTER one night where we were already intimate.
>>18466384
I mean ...he did always told me he wanted a kid
>>18466448
Yeah you're right. And I still want to talk to him because I still have feelings for him but I also cant bare being so close to him knowing he's talking to another girl and saying the exact things to her probably just to hookup