Now what?

You have your own place and a steady income, okay that is good. Next you should think about saving money, getting a vehicle and work a couple of years in getting more money in your pocket. How? Promotion or getting work experience at your position and then switching jobs for a higher paying gig. After that marriage and procreation. Find yourself a nice girl you share the same morals with and settle down with her. Raise a kid and do what most adults in first world countries do.

>>18463005
Getting a car hmm..
Had it in the back of my mind, thanks for fishing that one out of the yonder

That'll be my next step forward, I guess
Still in a low debt rn but that'll be paid off in three months and then I could start my drivers licence

You know I want to become a selfmade man one day and I obviously need a good backup for that on my account.
so saving will be next in line after my drivers license.

Okay this helps me settle for the moment, marriage and stuff will be a thing of the future for now.
As I'm usually sabotaging my own relationships and I don't know why

>>18462996
I was asking myself the same question a few weeks ago. I recently moved out with my bf and Im happy with my job & almost done with college. Now what?? Relax!! Thats what ive concluded, i need to relax and figure out what I want to improve. Do I want to improve my income? Get a new car? Go on vacation? Do something crazy? If all your basic goals are met, be happy with it! Dont dwell on what you should do next, instead think of what do you want to do next?? It could be something fun!

>>18463061
That's a good advice!
Put things in a different perspective, thank you :)

>>18463082
No problem! Try not to take errything so serious. When I do, it brings me to the brink of depression :P

>>18463100
I'm glad I kicked the habit of going for drugs when troubled

It's very hard for me to get depressed or even offended in the slightest way, I'm just an easy going type of guy

And I guess that's the way it should be, I'm just gonna ride the waves for some time until I feel it's time to take the tugs in my own hands again

>>18463121
Thats good! Seems like a sound plan :)

I wish you the best!

>>18463005
> Raise a kid and do what most adults in first world countries do.

That's terrible advice. You shouldn't have a kid just because "most adults in first world countries do".

My contrarian belief: If your feelings on having kids aren't overwhelmingly "Yes I want to raise a kid and have the means and resources to devote my adulthood into bringing someone into this world and am willing to make sacrifices to do so", then simply do not have a child.

We live in a society with way too many kids being raised by parents who have no business raising them.