I hate having sex. I feel it's a waste of time and I can't believe that my partner would find it as emotionally bonding or the pinnacle of intimacy. She's really upset that I don't want to have sex all the time but I find it incredibly...boring.
I don't see how slamming two sweaty bodies together and making gross noises is good for emotions. I'd prefer doing literally anything. To me, cuddling on the couch is far more intimate.
What should I do to "fix" myself? I don't want her to leave but I understand she has a need I'm not meeting and if we need to break up then I'll just do that.
>>18462506
If you don't enjoy sex, you're not doing it properly.
>>18462517
This. How do you do the sex OP?
>>18462517
>>18462527
Properly? Just jam it in the hole, duh.
Seriously though, it's not like I'm doing it wrong. There's lots foreplay (that's my favorite), lots of touching, etc. It feels physically good at the moment but it's a waste of time to me. I've tried all sorts of different things to see if I'm just not hitting a kink of mine (domination (both parties being the dominant one)), public, roleplay, we brought another girl, on substances, etc). Whenever we do have sex with both get off but during it I'm just thinking about things I'd rather be doing. Reading, hobbies, errands to run, movies to watch. Having sex just takes too much time.
That's why I just like cuddling on the couch more. We can kiss all we want, be as handsy as we want, while being comfortable as hell.
you're asexual
>>18462548
not a real thing
>>18462506
How old are you OP? How are your usual horniess levels? Is your gf hot?
>>18462506
Do you masturbate? Do you find porn arousing?
>>18462506
I'm like you as well. But unlike you I just never even tried getting a gf because obviously she'd be after my dick in the end. Sex is such a weird concept, I swear. Had it not been for the internet and the guy who ran into class in elementary school while yelling "DO YOU GUYS KNOW WHAT FUCKING IS", I'd be clueless to this day.
>>18462665
I'm 25. What do you mean horniness level? I don't think about sex that often. Yes she's pretty attractive
>>18462673
I masturbate maybe once or twice a month.
I never watch porn. When I do jerk off I just think about stuff.
>>18462543
Can't you cuddle and touch and kiss and whatever as you're having sex with her? Sex can be intimate as hell but maybe you're not doing it right. And it's supposed to feel good duh
You could go get your hormones checked at your doctors. There might be a simple fix.
But I'm guessing you're just asexual.