After 5 years leaving fiance

Man this is some deep shit. I don't know how to approach this. It seems like if you act out on how you feel, no matter what you do you will piss a lot of people off.

>>18461536
Yeah I'm one of those fools who is too guilty to leave.

>>18461525
>My gut is telling me just drop everything and leave town to avoid the shitstorm. But again I am not sure how to tackle this issue.
Is this an option? You might be able to leave for a month and spin this as a "soul searching" thing. Or you might be able to fake depression until she leaves you naturally. The only thing you can do in this situation is some sort of theatrical move desu. Every thing else will make you look like an ass to both families

The vast majority of city women, especially ones who are not first-generation immigrants, are whores. Your gut feeling is absolutely correct. And real men go with their gut.

>>18461558
I don't really care about my family that much and her family always hated me to start with because they thought and still think I'm awkward because I don't hug or talk much. I feel like I'm stuck between two worlds.

Don't do it, please
I came out of a 5 year serious relationship about 6 months ago and it feels just as bad as the day it happened. I wake up and instantly deel drained. I actually lost my job over not being able to function properly. I wouldn't wish that on anybody. I feel so bad for your fiance right now.

>>18461569
Then just break it off. It's not worth throwing your life away with this person. Just tell her you don't love her anymore. They will be pissed off, but as long as they aren't crazy they will get over it eventually

>>18461525
I'd end it. You're only wasting your time and your fiancées time by sticking around if you don't truly love her. There's no point living a life in which you feel unhappy and if you stick around this is probably your destiny. I don't think you should let your family or hers influence your decisions. It's your life and you should do the things you want to do and be with the people you want to be with.

Just tell her that before getting married you first have to change your habits to be closer and share more maybe ?
You need to realise that using "love" concept as an excuse for being egoist is not the original purpuse of the thing, it's more like a companionship that you have to entertain once passed the passionate stage

I think I made my choice of just leaving town and start anew in the south.

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>I fear if I call off the wedding hers and my family would resent me and i would break her heart.

>>18461660
How many times are you going to post this. I'm the only (you) you've gotten so far with this

>>18461660

>caring about your gfs family and her feelings
>cuck

wow sure smells like retard in here

>>18461525
Your reasons for wanting to throw away a 5 year relationship sound incredibly shallow. I think you're just scared of getting married.

I really think that you should talk to her about how you are feeling. You have spent 5 years with this girl and you should owe her the common courtesy of at least being upfront with her if you're just planning to leave

I have an idea but I need to ask you a question first. Do you own a gun?

>>18461525
what about couples counselling?

>>18461525
You've got cold feet, pussy. Man up, you've been together 5 years shit didn't suddenly just change.