Hi /adv,
I've recently come out of a long term relationship. I'm 22, and have never really been in a non-long-term relationship but I'm interested in an exchange student that I've known for a little bit.
>meet this girl, we'll call her Monica
>meet Monica for the first time at big group outing
>we're riding the tram home
she asks me about my gf at the time
>I give her all the details and speak positively of gf
>don't see Monica for a while
>Gf leaves me
>eventually travel with work to Monica's home town overseas
>ask her what to do there
>she doesn't reply
>we hang out with the same group we met with originally
>she is much warmer and comfortable this time around
>gives sympathy about my breakup
>says if I need a wingman she's there for me
>says if I need someone to talk to about the breakup she's there>says she'll take me on a practice date some time
>eventually a few of us go out
>we take some drugs (MDMA, speed, clubbing shit)
>Monica is all over me, constantly running her hands through my soaking wet sweaty hair, giving me massages, climbing on me, etc
>the next day I am due for a Tinder date
>she consistently discourages me from going on said date and to come drinking with her and a couple she is friends with
>i ask her if she is sussing me out and she gives a cheeky response
>decide to ditch date and go
>we have a pleasant dinner together, befriend the couple
>the next day we had plans to trip acid in a big group
>we have a great time all together
>Monica and I are on the same couch amongst others
>she cuddles me and strokes my hair a bit, feels like I'm melting into her
>stroke her leg at one point and I swear she looks excited for a moment and spreads them
>eventually have to leave cause housemate wants to go home
>message her today asking her if I can see her alone sometime soon
>she replies "I'd be keen to get dinner before sending you into the dating world"
>doesn't give any other hints whether she likes me or not
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>>18461464
>she gives few and far between responses from there but seems up for meeting
>I was totally sure she was into me until our recent exchange
>I really have no experience with asking girls out as all previous GFs have gone for me more actively
So is there any chance she likes me properly? How can I turn this practice date into a real date?
>>18461466
>stroke her leg at one point and I swear she looks excited for a moment and spreads them
>So is there any chance she likes me properly? How can I turn this practice date into a real date?
Are you retarded? Go until No. If she enjoys being touched by you, then keep escalating until you get a clear no-go from her. A no-go being her pulling away, seeming uncomfortable, or vocally telling you she's not into it. She's going to lose interest if you don't make your move soon.