So I went on a first date with a girl from Tinder yesterday. We hung out for 7 hours. My friend was a dick and added her on my facebook last night and she accepted. How long should I wait before messaging her that I had a great time and arranging for a second date?
>>18458699
two days
>>18458699
Now. Do it now. The waiting game is fucking stupid.
Wow I had EXACTLY the same situation on Saturday, except there was no Tinder involved
But after my date I dont care to wait I want to call her right now (I am nervous so pls encourage and cheer me up)
It was the best time of my life I cant wait anymore
Can I stop playing indifferent ? Also pls encourage me to call
OP I suggest you dont wait
>>18458699
more than 24h, less than 72h , if Saturday is close it will be nice.
>>18458716
you sound too needy, nothing good will come out off it if you don't cool off, as she will sense your needines
>>18458715
Thats what I think but I don't want to come off as needy.
>>18458716
Lel, you can do it my friend. Did she have a good time too?
>>18458719
Alright, ill probably message her after work today then. Good middle spot.
>>18458720
Look man, before the date I though about her only as an acquaintance but this amazing date really changed my view on her
Besides, its been a while and I have to strike iron while its hot
Dont worry I cant display any signs of need after I have been hurt, even if I feel this way
If anything I am too cold (didnt kiss her this night and regret)
>>18458737
By the way you type you are not as cold as you want to believe, thats just something you keep telling yourself cause you have been hurt, many have been there
Did you not kiss bcos you were "too cold" or bcos you felt fear of rejection?
Bump before work.