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Is a femdom fetish damaging to a man's "on the streets" confidence and his success with women?
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No, but it can be hard to find a female life partner that actually is into femdom.
>>18456011
If she tells everyone then yes but if you keep it quiet then no
Confidence is general. Feel like a fucking sissy. Hiding it with my life. My girlfirend have no idea.
No. I'm pretty confident in social situations (much less when I'm alone) and I still like getting dominated from time to time. The secret is to be confident in your manliness enough that you do not care about how people see it. Being manly does not mean always dominating, it means knowing when it's the right time to be tough, when it's the right time to be caring, and when it's the right time to be weak. Accept yourself as a human being and don't let single acts or preferences define you. If you like being dominated in certain situations and conditions that does not mean that you are to be pushed around in every other scenario. You define the boundaries.
there's an argument for the fact it's the 'confident' ones that enjoy it the most
I'm incredibly arrogant, confident and whatnot, but sometimes I really do enjoy being at someone else's complete mercy. I'm used to getting what I want so the idea of having to do everything someone else says is very taboo and exciting.