can't cum

You don't have to orgasm. In fact, it's healthier if you don't (unless you learn tantric orgasming) since you deplete your body of nutrients each time you ejaculate.
Practice cum retention while still having sex and you'll accumulate great sexual power.
Not even joking. Shit works

>>18454831
No kidding?

I'll look into that. I'm still a little spooked since I wasn't able to pop a load.

It's really okay?

Just play around. Usually it's stress. Most girls I'm with, unless i finish it, only a pussy will do. Try different positions and places. Something is bound to do it. Maybe get her dirty talking. Do you.

>>18454861
Note taken, relaxation till ejaculation.

Sorry if I'm hijacking your thread OP, but I'm with a dude who no matter what I do he doesn't cum. He told me not to take it personally, he said he actually has a habit of holding back with girls and stuff, but idk I feel like that's an excuse or something because I told him he absolutely doesn't have to hold back with me I wanna see him cum.

I understand if it isn't what he says it is, it's probably not his fault or mine, but I do sometimes feel like I'm not good enough or not doing something right :/

I'm just wondering, how should women act in these situations, because I know it can be awkward for you guys and I just don't want to make it worse.

>>18454876
Focus on having as many orgasam as possible this is always an ego boost for us anons. Also find out what kink he's into by telling him what you like.

Golden Rule do not make a big - small - or medium sized deal over lack of cum or stiffness.

>>18454925
Yeah, I could tell that much lol. I remember the first time I had this really crazy leg twitching, curl up into a ball, orgasm with him eating me out.
The look on his face as he came out between my legs, pure triumph and pride lol. Meanwhile I was just embarrassed as hell lmao, but hey, seeing him feeling so accomplished did make me very happy as well.
I did try probing him recently by dropping hints about my sub/dom kink. I wasn't very outward about it though, I was trying to give myself the escape route of playing it off like a joke if he acted disgusted with it.
I noticed he would smack my ass, but extremely gingerly, barely tapping it. I told him he could smack me harder, if he was just concerned about not knowing my pain limits or something, Said something like "Oh yeah, smack my ass and call me a slut ha ha..."
He didn't really respond though, but would jokingly call me a slut after in the cuddle phase, so idk maybe I laid the joking manner on too thick and he didn't think I was serious. He didn't divulge any of his own kinks like I was hoping though.
Kink sharing is hard man lol, gotta figure out what your tamest kink is, wait for the perfect opportunity to bring it up naturally, and gauge their reactions while giving yourself an out if it goes poorly. It's a very delicate tap dance.

>>18454876
It can stress him even more and make it even harder to cum.

Just don't mention it, focus on yourself.

Also advise him to cut on porn.

>>18455001
Yeah, I was ignoring it for the longest time because I though drawing attention to it would make it worse. I brought it up that one time just because I wanted to ensure I wasn't doing something wrong and he was too awkward to say anything.
Because I'm not that experienced and he's not that expressive, so it was spun as more of a "Hey, I kinda just need a little more communication because I'm not confident on what I'm doing down here" than "why aren't you cumming?"

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>>18455033
And I suppose I've just never been in this position before where it felt so one sided on my end. Usually if it's one sided it's always me the one throwing everything I have at him without him even looking my direction lol.
Feels guilty cumming all the time without returning, you know? But I guess it's not for lack of trying so I shouldn't feel that bad.

>>18454821
Drop the porn

>>18455043
Thanks, no fap it is..

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>>18454821
Have you considered smoking pot?

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>>18454960
I had my gf fill out a fetish survey that I made. We are definitely on the same kink lv so it's help direct our fun.

Why not send him several texts as a road map -
Something like here's what gets my off...then send him 1 text a day until he gets with the program.