Sup /adv/
so how do you know when people are bullying you and when it is banter?
Like sometimes at work or a party, someone will say some "joke" about you, that makes you feel slightly embarassed but you go along with it because everyone is laughing.
How do you know when you should just let it slip as banter and when it's actually an "attack" on you.
Because there is a difficult balance:
>either react offended and appear like an asshole
>either laugh with it but then you are encouraging other people to see you as a doormat
basically how to react in this situation?
>>18454654
You don't give a fuck unless you absolutely have to. Like an adult.
Also if they're joking about you being fat or such things you can do something about, maybe they got a point.