I broke up with my first girlfriend three months ago. It made me evaluate what I want in a relationship and made me define my tastes. Overall i'm happy I did it, we parted amicably and we are both better people for it. Since then, i've thought about this girl I knew from high school.
We didn't know each other very well, in fact we only met up once a week, if that, for a kind of book club. I always remember getting along really well with her and thinking she was very attractive at several points but I never worked up the guts to ask her. I know she's still living near my hometown but we haven't talked for quite some time and like I said I don't know her super well. I really can't explain this attraction that I feel, I just really want to meet her again, but several things make this awkward.
We're facebook friends, and my old girlfriend publicly got into a relationship with me. I'm worried if she'll think i'm flaky asking her out only a couple months after openly dating someone. I've also always had this inkling (or wish fulfillment) that she likes me. Small things that added up, she always smiled at me in the hall, laughed at my jokes etc. and seeing me in a relationship with someone else could make her think i didn't like her.
I don't have her number, but I can message her on facebook, though i'm not sure how to do that in a non-creepy way. I don't expect her to fall into my arms or whatever, but I would like to maybe go to a restaurant or a park or I dunno. i'd just like to try at least. So i guess what i'm asking is how do I go about doing this? For that matter, SHOULD I do it? I don't want to freak her out.
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>So i guess what i'm asking is how do I go about doing this?
Take a hit of weed and a serving of phenibut and just do what comes naturally. You don't have to be smooth to seem confident, but you do have to be confident to seem smooth.
>For that matter, SHOULD I do it?
Shit dude, if it's something you want, and if there's anything even slightly over a 0% chance of it working out, what excuse do you have not to pursue it?