homo kissless virgin in my mid 20's putting myself out there and met someone I really like, I feel comfortable around him and can speak openly and he told me the same, I have a great time with him but I'm feeling practically zero physical attraction towards him. I was feeling an attraction on our second date, but it was completely gone on our third. He's kind of dorky and out of shape, nothing that can't be fixed but it doesn't seem appropriate to come into his life and pressure him to change so soon. I don't want to break it off over such shallow reasons but it's kind of a big deal. I can tell he likes me and he looked disappointed at the end of our last date like he was hoping something would happen but knew I wasn't going to make a move. The date went well aside from that. I'm considering having him over and getting drunk with him to see if anything happens, but I don't know
Has anyone pursued a relationship like this with positive results?
>>18452384
*Intimate* relationship without physical attraction is not working for me, no.
I also realize physical attraction is often fixable with exercise or even emotionally strengthens with just sexual intercourse.
I don't really think I can decide for you if this will work out as some other form of relationship though.
What I can advise is to ultimately tell him that problem ASAP. It's somewhat hurtful, but shit, isn't it more problematic that an internet board would know about this snag and not him?