i hate my boobs

>>18450940
get implants you dumb fuck

>>18450948
what why would i do that? i'm self conscious because i feel like my boobs are too big did you not read that entire thing

>>18450940
>uwuwuwu I just have too much of a good thing give me pity and attention

>>18450940
>>if i could have a mastectomy i would.
Do you have any idea how stupid and slutty you sound? There's a lot of women who lose their breast to cancer and you come on here and bitch about yours. Then you flash them to people to get opinions as if anybody really cares. Try focusing on being a better person instead of looking better. It'll go a lot farther.

femanon, why do you hate having boobs though? you have to address the why. also it sounds like you have some pretty amazing boobs, see them as something good about yourself.

I kind of understand cause I used to be really self conscious about the size of my penis showing in gym shorts and swim trunks but now I'm just like "yeah, thats a thing everyone at the gym". like I used to hide boners from my first gf cause for some fucked up reason I thought she'd think it was gross or weird.

actually I suppose I never addressed my why, I just kinda was like, you know what this is awesome. so I guess you don't actually have to address the why, but ffs don't permanently disfigure your boobs, you'll regret it later.

>>18450940
Be thankful for what you were given. There are millions of women who would kill for what you have.

Frankly, don't associate with friends who constantly make comments about your body, you should probably make some better friends. If it wasn't your boobs, it would be comments about something else. Believe it or not, there are people who don't solely focus on their friend's tits

Also don't be that girl who flashes people just because they ask (even if drunk), it will make people treat you as an object even more

>>18450967
i'm not really sure as to why i have the why that's why i posted here today but it seems as if nobody's taking this seriously

>>18450979
i would never flash anyone besides my friends/bf because i'm painfully self conscious as it is that's why the only time i ever did it was when i was in my good (girl) friend's basement

>>18450962
they cared because they asked... and yes i realize that people truly lose their boobs to cancer because it happened to my aunt but me wanting them removed is not dumb or slutty it's just how i personally feel about them

>>18450980
I'm dead serious femanon. I'm trying to empathize with you but I don't have boobs. but I can relate to being self conscious about something good. you have to accept it as good or figure out why you hate having boobs and address that.

>>18450980
i'm not really sure as to why you have the why that's why you posted what you have here today but that's probably why it seems as if nobody's taking you seriously, seriously why is that?

>>18450989
i've strained to figure out why i hate them but i'm still not sure so i'll just attempt to work on accepting them i guess

>>18450985
permanently disfiguring your body is not going to do good things for you. some day you will wish you hadn't done it.

>>18450995
that was good i appreciate you whoever you are

>>18450998
also, instead of boobs you'll just have scars, and you won't be able to breast feed if you have kids (and you'll probably grow to want kids even if you don't now), and you won't have any sensation in your nipples.

consider that.

you've grown up in a weird time that demonizes femininity under the guise of empowering women and promotes all kinds of bullshit that in my experience tends to cause women to be more scared of the world, less empowered, and less confident.

>>18451003
i've already come to the conclusion that i don't want kids so that wouldn't be a problem but i probably would never go through with that anyway

and i agree with the second part for the most part

when i was a small child i had gender issues for about a year and eventually grew out of it... i was small enough that i could get away with not wearing a shirt... maybe that's why i have issues with boobs now

You were given a GREAT gift! Don't be upset about it. As others have mentioned, millions of women would kill for what you have. Leave them as-is and get some self-confidence.

People are going to like you for WHO YOU ARE, not your boobs (big or small) So, try to get over it and work on that self-confidence. You seem to be confident about the rest of your body, why not your boobs as well?

>>18450940
> how do i overcome hating having boobs/being confident enough to not keep hiding them?
All you apparently really got for them was compliments?

Just how is this putting you in a difficult position or destroying your confidence?

Are you some Christfag who can't see herself being fucked by her partner while clad in lingerie or whatever for the shame of that being an act that is just "too slutty and socially unacceptable" or something?

>>18450940
Most women would kill to have big natural boobs on a small frame.

what you are feeling it's fear, fear of having all the stuff a man wants wants in a woman's body, and yet fail to keep the man you are looking for, because you unconsciously know that failing would mean there is something wrong with your personality.


Finally, just going to say you this:

Tits are tits, it doesn't matter their size or shape,what matter it's the woman they are attached to.

>>18451029
> People are going to like you for WHO YOU ARE, not your boobs (big or small)
Honestly, a lot of people will like both you and your looks.

And some will masturbate to you and/or hit on you and all that. It happens when you're pretty.

But so what, NOT being beautiful is more annoying in almost every situation anyhow. You get to be self-conscious about being not beautiful while also having to work way harder overall to get any romantic attention.

>>18451013
It's probably that, you must try to focus on that its your body, and you should accept it, even more when you get compliments about it, as many people on this thread said, you are gifted, most girls desire for "porn boobs" and get implants, that ruin how a natural breast feels when you grope it, you have a natural big beautiful boobs, and if any girl tries to use it against you, it's because she feel envy about your boobs.

>>18450940
You can get surgery to make your boobs smaller in size, there's no need for a full blown mastectomy that will just leave you scarred and mutilated. Simona Halep did it because her boobs were too big for her as a professional tennis player.

>>18451013
>i've already come to the conclusion that i don't want kids
yeah so did I, now I want 4 and I feel like a stupid giddy school girl when I see dads with their kids. I hear it's worse when you're a woman. I'm assuming you're in your late teens very early twenties right?

>>18451069
>I feel like a stupid giddy school girl when I see dads with their kids
I should clarify because that's a weird way to word that and this is 4chan. I feel like it's fucking adorable and I want to be a dad too, and I start thinking about raising kids.

>>18450940
>one time when i was drunk with my friends

Girls or guys?

So everyone but you seem to agree that you have amazing boobs yet you still hate them? Must be sad to be you.

>>18450940
If your attractive and have nice boobs, what they look like and are most likely has nothing to do with these negative feelings you have.

Your probably redirecting more generalized feelings of inadequacy onto your chest. Your probably dimly aware that you have poor friends/are surrounded by betas that daydream about humping you, and you don't like it.

Instead of worrying about your chest, work on your personality and stop associating with people that daydream about you slurping cock.

>>18451037
>fiance is devout Christian
>virgin in mid 20s
>barely stuffs herself into a G cup bra
>has major fetish for fishnet lingerie
>has shared her loss-of-virginity fantasy
>"I want to paint you like a trout after the wedding so when we do it I'll be on top as you flop around like a fish trying to escape a net only to make me finish and collapse on you, effectively ensnared by the fishnet while you finish as well"
>will never look at anything involving fish the same again

Sexuality within Christianity is still there. There's just some unknown stigma on it so it's never talked about

>>18451037
nah i'm not religious and i'm an overall pretty promiscuous person

>>18451069
i'm 26

>>18451101
girls

Well, do you live in Switzerland? I'm looking for advices in life in general, which is something an attractive girl with nice, surprise boobs, should have plenty of. And I can totally give you advices on not having boobs. I mean I never had those, so I am, as you would say, experienced.

In any other case, I guess you shouldn't sweat it. That's just life. Breats, dick sizes, people always look at what others have instead. For instance my sister, got an A cup, an has been frustrated for life about it. Even thought about going to surgery (despite her being a scientist with little to proove).

Just like everything else in your body, you do with what you have. And hope it's not cancer. But really, confidence should not enter this region. Confidence is what I lack. Because when I speak, dumb shit goes out. Which is not something I do not have control over. Hence the confidence drop.

>>18451117
> stop associating with people that daydream about you slurping cock
That's such a lesbian advice.

>>18451119
> Sexuality within Christianity is still there
Well yea, you're still dealing with humans, albeit repressed ones. Science says we descended off an extremely long lineage where ALL your ancestors fucked often enough to be successful in procreating... that's pretty significant, eh.

And kinky dominant fantasies don't seem rare with humans. Hope you're in for a treat when you actually marry!

> There's just some unknown stigma on it
In most cases it's pretty explicit, but yes, the explanation for it is not at all logical.

>>18451101
Almost must be girls. With guys it generally is fine and chill, with girls there is usually a distinct sense of envy.

>>18451133
when i speak dumb shit comes out too anon. i'm projecting all of my insecurities on myself physically.

>switzerland

i'm in the states, moving to italy a year

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>>18451130
Thank you for the clarification.

guys I understand her and a lot of oyu might have some trouble understanding her but its like this

If youve ever tried to do something and was more afraid of succeding in the first step because then youd have to follow through with all the other ones and just wished to fail, youll know what its like for this girl.

Like most nervous and insecure people are afraid of people and social stuff in general, the stereotype is that the responses theyll get is negative because theyre ugly weird etc
but this girl will get more positive than negative response out of people, which is not the case for most shy insecure people. Just by the nature of our society and their shyness/insecurity, they get negative responses and since theyre scarred of people in general, theyll associate negative with nervous. Since this girl gets actually more positive response, and shy and nervous, shell associate peositive with bad.

I just threw out some spitballs guys IMHO I dont think its got to do with her being religious or brainwashed by anti-woman society or some other shallow theories you guys threw out

>>18451140
i appreciate the pic i have a djungarian hammy

>>18451126
> nah i'm not religious
I guess that eliminates that simple guess.

> pretty promiscuous person
I still can't imagine that one, though. You really don't actually enjoy your partner's (or even possible date's) reaction to your tits?

To me, positive reactions to my few good points like that are ultimately quite satisfying.

>>18451151
i always get positive and surprised reactions to my boobs but still i feel so painfully self conscious about them

i really don't know why even after all the positive reinforcement

>>18451139
>i'm projecting all of my insecurities on myself physically.
This I don't really understand why, but that seems dangerous. Some girls have it and then hurt themselves, which really is a pitty (as well as completely useless). Please don't.

Now, what is your field? Do you feel in it like you're taken less seriously because of your feminity?

I am very self conscious about my large penis. It's about 9 inches now. I got drunk with some friends who asked me to show it to them and they were like "wow, you have a porn star dick!" and "I can't believe how big your cock is!" It makes me so sad to get compliments. Boo fucking hoo.

>>18451160
possibly actually... when i was a kid i grew up with a "go get em tiger" mentality and was constantly pushed around and bullied by boys my age. i would show them up by out running them, fighting them, etc... they always said that boys were better than girls so i always showed them up and at one point went completely transgender in the 90s to prove to everyone that i was tough and a "boy"

nowadays i think that current feminism is cancer and unnecessary but i still feel like that time in my life might've made a mark on me not wanting to feel as feminine as i look

>>18451165
i know this was a joke, but actually thanks it helped me put my situation in perspective a bit

>>18451133
> Even thought about going to surgery (despite her being a scientist with little to proove).
You say that. But when it's about romantic relationships, you generally speaking do have to "prove" fitness and "prove" good looks.

Not that intelligence can't be attractive too, but it alone isn't enough to the vast majority of humans. Honestly, even if you do find someone who is extremely attracted to your intelligence, it's still bothersome how the rest of mankind might signal you in the extreme case that you are *SO* not dating material.

It's very conceivable that A cups want more conventionally attractive boobs, and that unattractive women want to wear makeup... despite the effort and cost involved.

>>18451154
> i really don't know why even after all the positive reinforcement
Hm. How much of it was positive reinforcement from people who you did or seriously wanted to fuck?

If you somewhere in your mind always had to somewhat expect duplicitous motives or were instinctively repulsed, that is not really relaxing.

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Post them so that I can give a proper asessment, I'm an expert.

But on a more serious note, stare at your naked body on the mirror, as weird as that sounds. I absolutely hated my body a couple of years ago, and doing that relieved me from how I felt. Just look at them and cup them; familiarize yourself with your physique on a more intimate level.

My ex had giant titties on a slender frame and she hated how men stared at her

(i sort of liked it)

But yeah she seriously considered getting a reduction. I empathized, I wouldn't want to have to dress around my tits all the god damn time either.

I'd say go for it. It's not like a huge deal. Also, smaller boobs are more fashionable and functional. That is the undeniable truth.

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oh god op shut the fuck up hahaha
i want to find you and hack your tits off.

>>18450940
>they said anon show us ur boobs so i did

>inb4 show us boob pics anon
this is really getting in the way of my entire self confidence

Off yourself you pity lusting roastie.

>>18451466
>Saying something subjective
>Talks about fashion which is subjective
>Saying it's the "undeniable truth"

Nigga, you just have small boob fetish.

>>18450948
Great reading skills, "you dumb fuck"

>>18450940
Unless they're causing you back pain, if you don't have to get custom bras you only stand to lose by having some Dr Jew cut your udders.

>>18450940
Oh shit, non surgical means to destroy your gift:
- Even if healthy BMI, fat % cut your calories by at least 200 from maintenance (you should be at maintenance already) and gradually inceease but no more than 600-800 below maintenance.
- Alternatively go to gym and bench/upper chest exercises will work to make you more muscular, shrink your tits. Use lightish weight (obviously) if you don't actually want to get super muscular and risk people thinking you have a chode.

>>18451128
5-10 more years and you'll be desperate for a baby. It's basic biology

for as long as i can remember, i've hated having a big dicm and always try to hide it with compression shorts. i'm 10" after loosing a little weight and i feel like they it looks too large for my small frame. one time when i was drunk with my friends they said anon show us ur big cock so i did and then they were like holyfuck.jpg "u have porn dick" "u have movie star dick" etc etc

if i could have a vasectomy i would.

i'm attractive, so it's not like i'm worried about girls going for me because i'm a butterface

this sounds like a joke of a thread but in all honesty how do i overcome hating having a big dick/being confident enough to not keep hiding it?

>inb4 show us big dick pics anon
>inb4 wow i would hate to have a big dick! sarcasm shit

this is really getting in the way of my entire self confidence

>>18451859
This is the only reasonable response to how much of a joke this girls "problem" is.

>Guys I inherited a million dollars
>I just can't handle being rich it's making me anxious being responsible for all that money
>I think I'm going to give it all away