My cousin is engaged to a guy and she loves him and he loves her too much,but he got in a car accident and can't walk good anymore (he can walk, just not normally),and my mother and my aunt have been trying to convince her to leave him because they fear he won't be perfect with her. She doesn't want to leave him because she loves him,but you know parents trying to convince. They're scared,"how will he walk with you in your wedding?" "how will he walk with you when you go out?"
>>18450291
As long as he's not dependent on her for walking, what's the big deal? If he needed constant care that would be different but even then, it's pretty shitty to just cast him aside over something he can't help.
>>18450291
So, what's your question?
>>18450291
Your mother and aunt are being silly. Actually, no, they're being mean-spirited, meddling, busybodies who should mind their own fucking business. Even better yet, they should support your cousin and her fiancee during their trying times.
You can tell them I said so on the internet.
>>18450291
Your mother and aunt are fucking cunts, sorry op. You should tell them to shut the fuck up - who gives a shit if one of them is your mother. Respect and reverence is granted to those who deserve it, not just because they happen to share the same blood or popped you of their pussy.
Wow your mother and aunt are terrible. They should accept him as someone who loves and is loved by your cousin. It's not like he needs 24/7 care. So he walks funny. They are going to destroy true love because of a limp? Terrible people.
>>18450645
>hasn't seen Breaking the Waves
not easy, by any account. still, don't rush to judge.
>>18450291
Your mother and aunt are vapid cunts. There are very serious issues which do need to be considered before someone agrees to marry someone who is disabled, but whether he'll be able to walk down the aisle properly for their nice little wedding video isn't one of them. Kill them both.
>>18450291
Wow what fucking shallow people jeez, this one of the most stupid things I've heard. And hey say ableism isn't real
>>18450723
What? The guy can still perform, he just has problems walking. Hardly the same thing.
>>18450291
Your mother and aunt are doing both your cousin a favor in the long run. Better to end this before marriage and before kids because after a year or two you cousin will leave the cripple and he'll really be devastated.
>>18451722
But it looks like he is still fully functional, it's not like she will have to be his caretaker from now on.