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She doesn't care when I'm mad

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Been with my girl for 7 years. She doesn't seem to care anymore when I'm angry with her or if she hurts my feelings. She tries to justify everything and argues back with me and discredits why I'm feeling a certain type of way instead of trying to understand why I'm angry and tries to defuse the situation. Does this sound selfish of me for feeling this way?


TLDR: When she's mad, I shut up and listen, and try not to escalate the situation. When I'M mad, she argues, kicks & screams with me until she forcefully says sorry without sounding sorry at all.
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>>18450065

How about address your relationship issues with your partner, instead of whining to strangers online?
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>>18450071
I have. Doesn't seem to change anything at all. Just want some advice
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Give her a taste of her own medicine. Stop being too kind to her.
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>>18450142
I'd rather just break up with her. I don't see her changing and want to know one thing. Is this normal behavior from girls? I feel like she should understand when i'm angry with her and try not to make the situation worse, but it goes the opposite way.
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>>18450167
>Is this normal behaviour for girls?
Yes.

>Does that make it acceptable behaviour?
Absolutely not.

I would tell you to drop her right now, but 7 years is a long time and if it were me I'd spend the next 7 years recovering from the break up. Maybe her positive attributes outweigh this problem with her being dismissive of your feelings.
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>>18450244
Dropped, not too sure if it would take 7 years. I dont' have much trouble finding girls, but finding the right one is a whole different problem.

I know i'm going to be hurting for a while though. I just don't feel like I could be with this girl for the rest of my life if this is how she's going to act whenever I'm angry at her. But if you're saying that's what all girls do, then i don't even know if i want to be in a relationship ever again.
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>>18450254
Not EVERY girl is like that. Only overly-confident one. I don't think your current gf respects you.
I actually think you SHOULD break up with her, and find one that isn't an entitled brat.
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>>18450254
How do you know you don't have much trouble finding girls if you've been out of the game for 7 years?

I don't know man. I'm feeling kind of optimistic right now so I feel like since your girl hasn't always been like this, then she'll not continue to always be like this. As if maybe there'll soon come a time when your relationship shifts somewhat and she sees the error of her ways and actually listens to you when you tell her that she's a dismissive and neglectful bitch.
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>>18450270
I know because I'm not that bad looking and I have my shit together. Not trying to sound cocky, but I do have confidence in myself.

She used to be more mindful and conscious of how I felt. She had more empathy. I guess it's a battle against time since I've been with her so much that the tolerance levels have gone to a very low level. Which makes me doubt that this is going to get better or change magically.
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>>18450262
You bring me hope friend. I swear to god this chick has no empathy or tolerance left for this relationship. I think I know what to do now. thanks
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