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I fail at masturbation 2017-06-23 04:47:35 Post No. 18449037
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Now I know that masturbation isn't really an important thing in life, but it frustrates me immensely that I can't be able to relieve myself. For some back ground context I never masturbated during puberty because I was disgusted by it and my urges in general. I figured that girls just didn't masturbate and that it was bad and wrong and just sat there in angry preteen horniness. Now that I find it acceptable and healthy, I truly desire a release. I read somewhere that girls will probs never find pleasure or the ability to orgasm in sex if they can't orgasm in the bedroom, so I've tried a number of things. I've posted them in a blog like fashion. I'm sharing my expedites because I'm hoping some of you can help which is dumb since most of you are male, but I don't trust female masturbation sites.
Day 1
I put 1 finger in my vagina. It doesn't really feel good. Just feels like there's something inside of me, like I had just put a finger in my mouth or something. I move my finger in and out in a rythmic fashion. Still nothing it just feels weird not really enjoyable. My arousal immediately leaves me so I just stop.
Day 2
I find out that most women don't feel arousal from the vagina and the most important thing is the clitoris which houses 8000 sensitive nerves, double of whats on a penis. Okay. Cool. It takes me forever to find mine as its small and mine is completely covered by the clitoral hood. I try rubbing it. Feels bad man. I decide I should get lube so I find that aloe vera is a natural lube so I get some and put a lot on the area, and start rubbing. Feels rather uncomfortable. Like what is all this sticky stuff doing here. I rub too hard on my clitoris it hurts. I rub not enough and I just feel nothing. There is no in between. I suppose I'll just die sexually frustrated, since there is no relief.
Day 3.
Okay lets start over. I start by watching something arousing while trying to touch myself. This does nothing.
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Day 4.
Okay apparently placing a shower head down there or having running water down there will be pleasurable. Got it. I place shower down in that area. Oh God. It tickles. I start giggling uncontrollably. I stop. Okay, I move all my folds away so that the water will hit my clitoris. Okay the waters hitting it but it feels hard and it hurts. I move it away slightly it hurts a little. I move it away some more. Don't feel anything really Today is Day 4. Does anyone have any tips to what I'm doing wrong? I'm going to rub an ice cube on my clit because I heard that it works. I'll post about it.
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Back before I could buy vibrators, I'd masturbate by putting my index and ring fingers on either side of my clitoris, and my middle over/in front of it to keep it stable while I basically rubbed the sides. Personally, I don't like when things get too slick down there because it makes my way of doing it more difficult.
But I mean, everyone's different. I never really orgasm during sex without a vibrator- I can't stay focused enough to orgasm from manual stimulation in that situation. Without actual sex, manual masturbation is still much more laborious than using a vibe. IDK how old you are but I'm assuming there is a reason you haven't tried vibration yet? Clearly people were getting off for thousands of years without vibrators, but they do make it easier.
As far as exploring it all manually, there isn't much to do but keep trying. Mostly, take ideas here and there but don't hold yourself to anyone else's way of doing it. You'll have to find out what feels good for you. Honestly sometimes I wonder how the fuck i figured out I could orgasm from masturbation, because honestly, if I didn't already know it could bring me to orgasm, I'd never believe (based on the initial sensation) that it would do anything.
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I am trying to figure that put for my gf as well but more so while in the act of intercourse. Its been tough for us but i also wanna wish you well.
Have you tried toys?
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