I'm looking for books about communication/social skills/self

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>>18448908
THEY DON'T WORK!!!

I guess that depends on what view you're looking to change. View on what?

Self-improvement wise, I've ended up with A LOT of books, so pick 3 areas you want to improve first and work on those. I started with Fitness, Life Skills (basic shit like cooking and keeping on top of household shit), and one Hobby.

Just about all books on communication/social skills are just like, the authors opinion, man. That doesn't mean they aren't useful, just don't take them as gospel in every situation. You can't ever be fully prepared for a social situation, so unless you're so fucking autistic you can't learn from real social experiences, you'll be better served actually going out and socializing than by reading about it. What works for Author A might not work for you. You'll have to find your own style. I work sales now and am not entirely uncharismatic, but nothing fucked me up socially more than spending a few years socializing more on the Internet than irl. Had a lot of catching up to do.

Why not videos?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?list=PLFfM65xLnO-GGdbO5yYuQvaKOhG6j1Ih7&v=Bsyplaii9p4