I moved away from my hometown to be with my boyfriend and I am really struggling to make new friends here.
I was a huge tomboy since I was a child - my mom is pretty tomboyish herself, I have 2 brothers, all my parents' friends have male children. I basically never learnt to socialise with girls.
I have 3 female friends back home and I love them a lot, but they're not exactly "standard" girls.
My interests are male dominated, my work field is male dominated.
When I talk to girls I always feel out of place or bored as fuck.
A lot of boys take my friendliness as flirting so it gets awkward with them too.
What should I do? How do I make friends as a 25 year old sperg who cannot talk to girls?
>>18448787
Keep hanging out with the girl - force yourself to stay, and you'll eventually adapt with them. I think it doesn't matter if you cannot connect with them at first due to different interests/orientations, as time goes, maybe you could bring something new to the new group of girls you're with. Patience is the key.
Also, of course it's always best to keep it in a group of same-sex friends unless you swing on different way since it could raise an unwanted sexual tension like what you've described. That's how I see it.