/soc/, I don't usually post here but I figure you're good social people and would have good input on the matter. Admittedly I'm very hurt. It's been a rough day. Here's what happened, as posted on /r9k/.
I mean...was I in the wrong here? She's clearly hurt and I didn't mean for her to get hurt but...we had broken up. I dunno guys. I'm hurting. Anyway, thanks for any advice or encouragement you can offer, it means a lot.
>2 months ago
>start dating girl
>she's great all around looks good, hates niggers, obedient
>has mental issues
>she decides we should take a break so she can clear her mind
>I accept because there's no point trying to fight that shit, like Pilate I wash my hands
>weeks go by, I meet another girl, we fuck
>a day later previous girl messages me saying she missed me
>says she wants to talk and that she's feeling better
>I ask her to take me back
>she asks me if I've been with anyone while we were separated
>I come clean (I'm genuinely an honest person irl)
>she says she wants nothing to do with me and leaves me saying I basically cheated
>Im all alone now
OH SHIT WHY DID MY GREENTEXT NOT COME OUT. WHAT IS HAPPENING.
>>18446185
You're not wrong, Walter, you're just an asshole. - Lebowski
You were on a break. Fair play, that does (usually) mean it's open season.
But you knew damn well the girl has mental issues. What the fuck else did you expect to happen?
>>18446186
I dunno man. I didn't think she'd just leave me over it. Shit, I didn't even think she was coming back. I just wanna be happy.
>>18446187
maybe give her some time (a week? two weeks? whatever you feel is right) and if you still want to try things with her then ask her to reconsider, and very calmly give her your side of the story. probably your best course of action if you still want to be with her
>>18446188
I cant help but feel like if I just let her simmer her anger towards me will just fester and grow.
>>18446189
it might, but she might also calm down.
i don't know her so i don't know what she'll do within that time, but those are the two most likely options