Coming out to my friends and regretting it instantly

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>>18441102
Sounds like you don't accept your self. You need to learn to love your self. Why are you so ashamed of your self?

>>18441152
I don't know. I guess I don't like being different

>>18441102

Just let it rest

Now they know and will probably try to set you up with all their other homo friends and aqquantices

This is not a bad thing and gives you options.

Just tell them you are not interested in them prodding you all the time and to stop asking about if you are the boy or the girl in the relationship

>>18441102

Everyone is born different, no matter how you may ignore it. There is no such possibilities because nature made it that way. Hell, even twin that might look exactly the same will have different personalities.

Back on topic, you should open up more about things that are different about it. if you don't it will hunt you down your whole life... eating away the deepest parts of you. I've seen people ignoring themselves and drowning in the miasma just because they though too much of how people would react to that.Bathing yourself in the sun because you are true to yourself is great but Isolating yourself is worse than death.

>>18441158
What about being different do you not like? Do you want to feel insignificant?

>>18441102
They dont care as much as you do, relax its normal now.

>>18441205
Some people are just treating me like a war hero or something because I came out and I don't like it. Not only that but i don't want my friends hooking me up with random people

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Boi if you dont grow the fuck up and stop whining, there are people in much worse shape than you, much harder lives and have fought through it and made a good life for themselves.
Get the fuck off 4chan and do something for once.

>>18441102
Just tell them you don't want to be treated any different now and that nothing has changed.

>>18441335
That was a good guide until step 5. Step 5 and up is being a pure sperg

>>18441102

you learned the lesson the hard way. i went back into the closet when i moved and no one ever finds out unless i date a guy and they meet him, but i rarely date more of a casual hang and bang kinda guy.

so yeah. just pray? anytime they bring it up try to change the subject just say 'ugh not today' and talk about something else. they'll get the point that the gayness isn't intrinsic to you.

its funny i havfe a friend who knows and he keep s insisting i need to tell the other guys in our group to be 'true to my self' and that they'd have no problem with it, and I'm aware they wouldn't but its not the issue. its not an important detail people need to know about. its not like they're sharing their porn searches with me. he keeps saying 'i just want you to feel comfortable in the group' but honestly the only time I feel uncomfortable is when he wants me to 'come out'.

>>18441102
Op, I should've mentioned it but I came out as pansexual. Sorry for the confusing and for being stupid. My bad

>>18441335
Goes full retard at step 5.

>>18441838
The whole situation was terrible. I first said I was Bi but then someone told me what I was saying "If end up loving someone I'm not gonna care what they are I'm just gonna love them" matched up with pansexual so then I told everyone that. The whole situation went fine but I just feel like people think I'm retarded or something. Sorry for not explaining the whole situation

>>18441855
Looking back at it now, nobody in their right mind comes out as pansexual

>>18441897

nah its mostly tumblr people or people who specifically have a fetish for trans people but stil ldate non trans people.

>>18441897

anyone who says that but hasnt actively dated / pursued or at least fapped to trans people is relaly just saying 'im better than you cuz i dont care about our earthly vessels you call 'the flesh''

>>18441228

The war veteran thing I can understand

But friend trying to hook up friends with random people is what friends are for.

It's like arranged marriages: they check out people for you and find out who is suitable (at least that's how it's supposed to be)
If they are just scraping up random homeless trannies then they are not good friends.
If they are finding relatively sane individuals of moderately attractiveness that kindasorta mesh with your interests, then they are doing God's work at being your friends.

Be happy if that is the case.

My mom tries to hook me up with an at-the-moment admitted to the insane asymul, neurotic wreck with a 2-year-old boy.
My best friend tries to hook me up with a gay dude my age who is rather talented and interested and somewhat good-looking.

I appreciate what he does for me in that regard.
You should do the same for your friends.

>>18441102
Tell them, world need more faggots like you, the ones that don't seek for attention.