I've been invited to a graduation party by a good friend of mine this weekend. We know each other outside of his school and he's inviting well over fifty people from his school/band/etc. plus his girlfriend. I knew some of the other outsiders who were invited to come, but it turns out family life caught up to them so now they're unable to attend. I'm not scared to interact with strangers, ot's only one night, but I really don't know how to integrate myself into the conversation of these closely knit people who no doubt want to see each other before spreading out for college. Is this a lost cause?
>>18439643
Go to the party. There's almost certainly to be some girl there who's drunk af and who's relationship is at an end. She'll be looking for dick to mak her ex jealous and we'll be super vulnerable. You can get her to do a lot and she'll probably lie about you having a massive cock. Keep your eyes open for the girl and swoop in.
>>18439715
I'm a straight girl and not looking for a hookup, just trying to support a friend. Prolly should have specified that, lmao.
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>>18439643
You guys don't have anything?
if you'd rather do something else than to try to interact with strangers at a party, than yea, don't go, regardless of your host friend.
I'm no social butterfly myself but, if you wish to hone this skill to help you in the future, a good way is to practice and learn from mistakes.
I guess your interactions will depend on how fun you are to be around or how good looking you are( + for males, - for females).
>>18440959
I don't mind interacting with strangers. My first semester of college was cool because everyone is basically a socially awkward fish out of water, especially at a community college where classmates shift so many times. The problem here is that these people know each other well, and I was never successful in breaking into well-established cliques. I just don't know how.
One last bump, I promise.
Just try it out. I believe that after they'll have a few drinks, you'll integrate easily.
*Don't compliment guys you don't know, it leaves the wrong impression if you're not looking for a bf
*Try and talk to straight girls rather than guys
*Get a bit drunk yourself to feel less awkward
>>18442169
I know it's hours later, but thank-you.