Emotional talk with girlfriend

Girls don't like emotional men, it turns them off. Remember, there is a difference between what girls say they want and what they actually want.

>>18437776
The fundamental gender divide imho.
I'm on the opposite side of this, a grill who wants the guy I'm dating to open up more emotionally.

To me it's like really great to understand what's going on in a guy's head, know what worries them/ how to support them etc. And vice versa.

What is it about emotional talk that men don't like?

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>>18437780
That's what I'm worried about, obviously you need to be emotional every now and then, but I'm worried about messing up the balance.

>>18437783
Personally I really like it, but like the guy above said it can feel like you're being weak or unmanly by some people.

>>18437810
I feel like many men find it weak / unmanly then project their feelings onto women: "Oh, women don't like that (because I wouldn't like other men acting like that). As a femanon, my girl friends and I love it when men open up emotionally. Everyone is different though.

>>18437780
They don't like fucking robots either. It's fine to open up, but assume a masculine role. Maintaining the balance is a fine art

>>18437776
I did this. Breakup commenced soon thereafter

>>18438222
This.

It's necessary to open up to your significant other in order to maintain a healthy relationship but please, for the love of god, don't be a bitch about it

Don't start whimpering and crying like a baby, that's the woman's job because they can't take anything like an adult, so someone's gotta have a little dignity in those moments, may as well be you