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I've been bullied for 2 years by my college roommates. They've

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I've been bullied for 2 years by my college roommates. They've physically and verbally abused me, stolen stuff for me, used me for my money, did things they thought was hilarious to me like making me clean up their room, lock me up in the room, make me walk for miles while they were in a car with enough space on me and played a lot of unfunny pranks on me.

Now I've dropped out from that college and I've developed a coping mechanism more like "get them before they get you" attitude to avoid being taken advantage of now.

But it's been 2 years now and I still imagine torturing and killing them in my mind which gives me pleasure, in brutal ways.

How do I learn to forgive and move on?
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You got bullied as an adult and didn't do anything about it? Jesus fuck man, you could've complained and changed room mates. How did they make you clean their rooms and why did you allow them to take your car keys? Really, this honestly could have been avoided if you complained to your dorm, especially about the stolen items, and things could've been fixed.

But anyway, it looks like it'll be hard to move on for now. At least you don't have to associate with those shitbags.
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>>18437267
I wasn't in a position to complain.
They had threatened me and also I thought I'd look weak if I conplained.

Yes I admit I could've taken a stand for myself but under the conditions I was in, I didn't.
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>>18437273
Why doesn't it matter how you look if you won't be living with them after? If they physically threaten you then you can call the police on them, especially since they stole your shit.
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>>18437317
Okay the thing is, we were all using drugs at the time.

They introduced me to drugs, and if I had called the police on them, they would've turned me in too.

I'm clean now.
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Dude, there is no use "forgiving" because you can't forgive everyone for everything. You need to ACCEPT it happened, and that you didn't do anything, and MOVE ON. You need to realize that not everybody are like those guys too (I'm sure you already kinda aware of that, but it's hard for ya).

I'd suggest seeing a professional too.
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