how do i deal with embarassment?
i am exceptionally sensitive to mild embarassment, and sometimes it can take me weeks to get over a minor fauxpas
pic related, just did this
just learn to play it off
Acceptance and validation seeking behaviour lowers power. The second you stop giving a shit you will be happier and make more friends.
>>18435530
If I have a embarrassing moments I usually revert to my hobby to forget about it
lol, normies wont know what that is pal dont worry
Drop acid
Robbins has a great system for this in his book release the giant within
Imagine the situation in which you got embarrased and play it over and over in your mind - now as you are doing it exagerate the scenario, make the people into cartoon characters and take the situation to absurd degrees until you are laughing at the ludicrousness of it all.
Do what Dabmeister said and make it a Hentai group chat
>>18435544
This is true arguably.
>>18435530
By knowing that no one will ever go through life embarrassment free and that the only way to do it less is for it to happen and learn from it in the first place. You're a human, fucking up comes with the life package and everyone is ok with it outside of the most extreme situations or people.
>>18435530
Grow a pair
It's not embarrassment that's your wider problem in life, I'm sure you're also scared of social meetings, scared of niggers, low self esteem etc etc etc
My friend the thing you need to learn is to say fuck it to anything and everything. Put yourself in an embarrassed situation a lot, after a while it becomes entertainment for you, trolls are nothing more than people that show their insecurities through jokes. Become a troll, make all the negativities positive. Love yourself and love Hitler.
Once you get over the embarrassment you will see that the only way to get some relieve is by killing niggers. Killing niggers is a really effective way to calm your nerves, but gassing Jews is more fun to watch.
OH and BTW, if you don't fix this issue of yours, you will get some nice anxiety on your 24-25
What >>18435540 said.
Your mistake in the OP pic is pretending that you have cunty friends. Learn to roll with it instead. Fess up to your mistake and laugh at yourself, this will invite others to laugh with you.
Notice how your friend says "can we make this a hentai group chat?" He's helping you defuse the situation.
There is nothing more awkward than trying to save face. Don't be the tentacle porn research guy.