Why do people largely ignore/lose interest in me?

>>18432134
How old are you?
Are you introvert or extrovert?
School? Work?
Gf?

it's because you're socially awkward maybe, best option is to say outrageous shit.

>>18432134
maybe, I just prefer to be quite, if I try to talk to people I just bore them so I usually remain silent for the most part, you get used to it after a while and for some reason people think your mysterious when in reality your just socially retarded.

>>18432201
22, and a male if it matters
I'm not sure honestly. I don't mind hanging out with people, also don't mind a night inside just reading or watching a movie.
I go to school. Looking for a new job
No gf. I am fucking this girl on the regular, but I don't like her enough to date her.

>>18432208
I might be. And that might work but isn't that cringy? I would feel like a high schooler or a memelord.

>>18432211
Is this me? Maybe my interests are fucking boring...

>>18432215
Sounds like you are just bland normie. Not too great nor too bad.

Why do you even crave attention of others? Do you do friends? If yes, just organize actions yourself?

>>18432215
There's no such thing as a boring interest, you just need people who share them.
The only reason I remain quite is that I usually don't give a shit about what people talk about, it's usually Teenage drama teir stuff and I've never cared about that, I give small talk for common courtesy but I just prefer being the grey man.

>>18432228
Honestly, because I want fun, better friends. Robust friends. The friends I have now, even just going to the bar is hard. I try to organize actions and they either back out because it's easier to stay home and get high than go on a trip somwhere or something more fun came up.

>>18432234
I feel like this. I just don't care about small petty things. I hate talking about people that haven't done anything worthy of praise, truly.

>>18432244
Yeah, it's unfortunate but for some reason even adults act like boring teenagers, you can't really change that, just hold out until you meet someone who is actually fun and stay friends with them.

>>18432244
>better friends
>organize
Lol. Ok you are extrovert.

Tough luck.

Try various social event and transform yourself into social butterfly.

>>18432276
I guess. I just don't know where to begin with that. I actually went to the bar by myself to watch a basketball game a few weeks ago and it was fucking awkward as hell.