Best girl ive ever met (current gf) isnt sexual, what do

>>18430431

No, you're not terrible for wanting a partner who has a similar sex drive to you. You can ignore it in the beginning as the infatuation tends to mask it, but it will become an issue in the future. The fact you're considering returning to your ex for a fuck while you're in this relationship shows that you don't love her and you're not all that invested anyway.

Don't return to your ex though. She's your ex for a reason.

>>18430431
Remember: most women have responsive sexual desire

>>18430431
All women are sexual creatures in the right circumstances. Your girlfriend is simply not sexually attracted to you and is using this "no sex until marriage" line as an excuse. She will be sexually attracted to a 10/10 Chad once he inevitably hits on her. Ghost her and find someone that will actually satisfy your intimacy needs.

Respect her decision on wanting to wait until marriage. Of you can't cope with that then break up with her, don't make her change her mind for your selfish reasons.

I'm in a similar situation. Except the firs couple months we had sex multiple times daily, now I'm lucky to get laid more than twice a week. How df do I turn her on more?

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>>18430431
Your current girlfriend reads more like a friend than a girlfriend. You have sexual desires. She does not. You can go about this relationship in three ways:--
A: Eek out sex with your current gf on a rare basis. It will take work, and more often than not it won't be fun
B: Cheat on her to fulfill your sexual desires. This may make you more happy in the short term, but she will hate you for it
C: Submit to her asexual desires; she will remain happy, and you'll feed off this happyness, but somehow you will always feel hollow.

I say break up with her while you still can, while friendship is still possible. If you want to get back together with your ex, then fine. But your thinking of your ex in all the ways in which she is not your girlfriend, and that's a disaster waiting to happen. Just find someone new.

tl;dr Find someone (completely) new

>>18430431
Have you spoken to her about how you find her amazing but you put a value on intimacy in relationships?
You could probe and maybe find out why she isn't sexual, is it nerves, is it religion, upbringing, personal beliefs etc.
Please dont just immediately dump her as an overreaction, if it really doesn't work out, then sure, parting amicably is fine because sexual compatibility is extremely important but give yourself a chance to possibly find a work around.