Guy relocating to date me

>I'm worried that I'll ruin a man's life just because he likes me
Don't worry, if it's not him you'll end up shotgun marrying someone else.

>>18430161
Kek. I don't even particularly want to get married, I would just if my partner really cared about it.
I also live in a place where you can keep your financial assets divided in case you get married.

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Bump.

>>18430155
>I do like him and want to date him, but I am scared he'll regret it if things don't work out.

I think you should just tell him this and see how he feels about it. I'm sure this Is something that he has considered as well. I don't really have good advice as to whether you should tell him to come or not. I don't know how compatible the two of you are or anything else that would be indicative of a relationship that will last. You guys will just need to figure it out together.

>>18430226
He got in such a vulnerable position by asking me this and I am scared that anything I'll say could be taken as a rejection. I am scared about hurting him in any way.

I do think we have potential as a couple. He's one of my best friends, we share tons of interests and he has an amazing sense of humour. We are extremely similar when it comes to values and in general he's one of the few people I feel comfortable with. I do like him physically too.

Don't coerce him. Let him make his own dumbass decisions. If shit falls apart, poop on him. Not you.