family hates my bf

>>18429946
Sounds like a problem that will heal with time, your family probably won't like him for a while but if you guys last and stay happy in your relationship they'll probably grow to like him.

>>18429946

It actually sounds like the groundwork for a very good relationship that you have both broken up and tested the waters and still ended up together again.

The sex part is fine as long as you are fine with it. Be careful not to let him take you places that you will resent him for. Make clear boundaries and rules when you play kinky.

As for your family, they will loosen up the longer you stay together.
of course they are sceptical now. I am sceptical now about your relationship. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't stick with it, especially when you say that you truly feel connected to him..

Why did you break up?

>>18429959
i hope so. it just really hurts me to know they don't like him, and he really likes them. he always asks how they are doing, and he doesn't know they don't like him (we are pretty far away from them but planning to move close when i finish my studies and then of course he will know).

>18429962
thank you for saying that.
i know it sounds like a trainwreck after i say we've been broken up twice but i can say i learned a lot during that time and bettered myself.

don't worry, he always stops when i ask him.

i really hope you are right and that they will warm up to him over time! i really hope so.

>18429967
first time: i had really low libido (due to depression + birth control) during a period of time and felt almost repulsed by anything sexual and consequently really pushed him away.
also my anxiety got to its highest because i never learned to control it and i didn't want to go outside, to be seen by other people, obviously it was not fun when for example we went to a lake and i just cried and said i want to go home and got mad at him.

it was a really bad period in my life but after he broke up with me it was what pushed me to learn how to deal with this stuff.

second time: we got back together but i could tell he still didn't 100% trusted me and he was depressed because he didn't know what he wants in life during that time. it was kind of like roles reversed for the first breakup.

>>18429967
OP told he had dealt with depression and maybe he took a break for himself for that reason.

>>18429946
Most of the time, when your whole family hates the person you're dating it's because they see something that you're too blinded by emotions to see. Your family only has your best interests at heart.