I don't enjoy sex?

You had no deeper connection to her. You don't know her as a person and you were paying for her time and her pussy.

You obviously get off on having a mental connection with a woman. It's far more satisfying to fuck someone you know well and have feelings for.

It's no big deal - just try and avoid paying for sex in future if it doesn't work for you.

>>18428349
Maybe is that, but I'm uncapable of getting a woman by my own, that why I hired her. I will hire another one, one that I would like, and if I don't enjoy it I will stop hiring entirely.

People who enjoy sex with prostitutes genuinely believe that relationships are basically the same thing as paying someone for sex, they don't believe there can be a deeper connection between people, they are entirely jaded and don't plan on going back to trying to find love. In a way they are still making an emotional investment in the idea that they are correct and people who look for love are just naive.

Don't listen to those saying bad stuff about escorts anon. Sex with someone you have an actual connection with is always better, but sex with anyone else isn't bad at all either.

That said, most guys can't get it up or finish their first times. It's totally normal in a wide range of conditions. So just chill, it doesn't mean anything besides that you were nervous for your first time, and if your first time was with a woman you really loved, you probably wouldn't even get it up from sheer performance anxiety. Again, it's perfectly normal.

Don't let it get to you and lower your expectations on sex. It's both the best thing in the world, and not the mind blowing life changing experience virgins usually think it is.

I say hire the same escort, and don't mind at all that you didn't cum. Explain her your situation, escorts take v cards more often than not, and a lot of them are real sweethearts if you treat them at least decently. She'll probably be more pacient and reassuring with you, and if she isn't, just look for an escort who is. They're people just like anybody and there's probably a few out there with virginity fetishes

>>18428344
Sex and making love are different

Sex isnt shit compared to love

>>18428515
I don't think people who want love are naive. I've always wanted to have a relationship with someone, I tried a lot of things and tried to improve myself the best I can but it just never happened to me and at this point I doubt it ever will, that's why I hired her.

>>18428584
I don't think I was very anxious, I just didn't feel any pleasure from it. Also, I told her I was a virgin and she didn't laugh nor anything, she just tried to make sure I had a good time. I wouldn't go with her again, not because she was bad at it, but because I want to try another one to see if it was nerviousness, or if just don't enjoy it.

>>18428710
>I tried a lot of things and tried to improve myself the best I can but it just never happened to me and at this point I doubt it ever will, that's why I hired her.

But you can't let go of the idea that it's plan B and it's not the same thing as a relationship. So no, you wouldn't feel good doing it. What I'm saying is that you're not a bad guy and don't have to do this to yourself.

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>>18428344
Fuck, you suck dude. I am pic related from appearance in a white majority country and still managed to have two relationships with white girls and fucked countless prostitutes.

Not gonna read post. Just going off title. You're not doing it right. Try again, different combinations of position partners length toys etc. No one is asexual or doesn't enjoy it. They're not doing it right either.

You got an escort that's why.
Hit the gym, be social, live life.
The chase makes it exciting.
Youtube basedzeus

>>18428720
>But you can't let go of the idea that it's plan B and it's not the same thing as a relationship.
I know that. I did it knowing that I'm not forming any kind of affective relationship with her.

>>18428721
>Fuck, you suck dude.
Tell me something I don't know.

>>18428739
Invalid reply; read post.

>>18428794
Tried that and failed.

>>18428825
Then it seems that's how sex will look for you. Souless in and out with a whore.

>>18428828
Yeah, I know, that's why I'm sad. I don't enjoy many things anymore and I use most of my time working. I accepted the reality that I'd never get a woman to love me, so I thought in getting escorts and go to a different one every week, that would make me expect something or at least enjoy life a little more, but it got me depressed the fact that not even sex I enjoy.

>>18428825
Indian looking dude here. It's hard to get girls. But to really enjoy sex you must have it with one you love and can trust her. After you can try out different things with her you get more confident and AFTER THAT you can fuck escort, prostitute shameless and ruthless.

>>18428864
nobody likes tiny indian dicks. OP don't listen to this faggot. If you look up at a girl w eating her out and say I love you guaranteed she's dryer than the grand canyon. Be ruthless, confident, women hate insecure men.

>>18428864
If I could get the first one I wouldn't have used the second one. And she was a shameless and ruthless prostitute, she wasn't a whore I found in the street, she is a good looking woman that turned her apartment into her office and charge for sex. She was clean and a nice person in general.
Btw, prostitution is legal in my country, so I found her in a forum when escorts promote themselves and her clients write reviews about them, that's why I went with confidence that it wasn't a trap.

>>18428874
Shit, typo.
I meant "she wasn't a shameless and ruthless prostitute."

>>18428874
Find a girl, let her be your gf, sex with someone you love is 100% better, trust me. There are plenty of social networks out there. Try your luck. I am a filthy indian looking guy and have success, go dude.

>>18428515
> Anonymous 06/17/17(Sat)17:43:53 No.18428515▶>>18428710

People who enjoy sex with prostitutes genuinely believe that relationships are basically the same thing as paying someone for sex, they don't believe there can be a deeper connection between people, they are entirely jaded and don't plan on going back to trying to find love.

You're not a very good thinker, so you should probably stop expressing your opinions. It's entirely possible to enjoy both act of deep romance and emotionless physical sex. Each has its own appeal.

>>18428902
Read the thread. I won't stop trying, but nothing has worked so far, so I really doubt I'll ever find someone. I know you have good intentions and I don't want to be rude, but if you are just going to say "go for it" then don't even bother replying.

>>18428825
I read it. Answer is still 100% valid. Get gud that your little hookers anecdote isn't super special unique you fucking attention whore. You obviously didn't do it right. Try a different partner and see if it doesn't change shit. Or neck yourself dude because you lost your vifnity at 27 to a hookers and couldn't cum

U need love in the mixture with out it its like your an empty puppet that moves but does not feel . when u find someone that jist the thought makes your heart ruah thats the person for u.

>>18428344
You might just have death grip from jacking off too much and looking at porn too often. Watching a lot of porn regularly makes real sex boring.

>>18428344

You are just used to your deathgrip. Thats it. Just jerk off by yourself when you want to end and you should be good.

>>18428344
Some people just need an emotional connection to get off.
.t 30 year old man who needs an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

>>18428721
>two relationships with white girls
thanks for taking care of our fatties, they need love too.