A person shared a secret to me and now i can't talk normally to them anymore
is this normal ? will it go away after a while?
i want to go back like i used to be with them but i feel anxious talking to them now
they had already shared a lot and none of them fazed me but i can't help but be bother by this
i feel like a horrible person because they trusted me
Also i dating this person.
>>18426025
I had an almost opposite situation. I told a friend a secret, and I could feel it bothered him. He couldn't give me what I needed :/ I needed to feel safe and instead we argued about technicalities... There was some romantic interest involved...
I don't know if your feeling goes away :/ but try to remember that they are more than their secret, if that makes sense in this case...
>>18426131
I'm sorry anon
In my case i really want to make this work but recently he called me and i was holding back my tears i couldn't talk like i used to and i think he noticed
>>18426200
I think you should at least give it some time, but I don't know how bad it is...
You probably shouldn't talk about the problems all the time, sometimes it helps to talk, but if you talk about things too much, you just dig a deeper hole and bathe in the negativity...
What did he tell you? What was the secret?
>>18426292
Some childhood trauma that made him confused for a period of time