I want a girlfriend but the only girls who are ever interested in me get all horny and I don't want sex because I'm an awkward virgin who would just leave them unsatisfied. Is there any way to find girls who don't want sex? I just like the romance really.
>>18424643
>unsatisfied
Learn how to do oral on girls. Cuddling and fingering works too.
Now go make baits on other boards.
don't lie to yourself. ofc you want the sex, you're just awkward as fuck and scared to death that you'll fail.
work on that and then have a normal relationship like everybody else.
>>18424652
Doesn't matter. I just want a girl who doesn't make those sorts of demands.
>>18424657
i'll tell you exactly what will happen.
>anon searches asexual girl
>finds one
>they start dating
>being around an actual girl gives op a confidence boost
>his healthy sexuality starts to awake again
>suddenly desires his gf
>gf is disgusted and confused because that's not what she signed up for
>op keeps his sexual frustration bottled up
>gf starts to nag and start fights over mundane reasons becase she is inherently uncapable of intimacy and communication, another symptom of her unsolved issues, to which her ASEXUALITY belongs too
>op and his gf are constantly fighting
>op has had enough and also, there's this cute new girl at work who keeps sending signals
>starts to banter with her
>moral dilemma
>decides to break up with gf since he just finally wants sex and is fed up with the constant discussions that don't lead to anything
>fucks girl from work
>sex is awefull because op never adressed his issues
>can't get hard because fucking anxious
>shit is awkward after that at work
>thinks he might be gay after all
>hires trap from backpage
>fucking disgusting
>op goes to r9k to rant about how worthles women are and how they all just dissapoint him and how he's just a "nice guy" looking for some intimacy
yeah, that sounds like a neat plan. good luck, op!
>>18424643
Here you have one >>18422959
Now go date her.
You're not looking for a girl who doesn't want sex because you yourself are asexual. You're looking for one because you're so scared of failing at sex that you won't even try.
If you don't do it, you'll never get better.