I recently started dating my oneitis after knowing her for 4

"Taking a break" is always a euphemism for breaking up. I don't know what to tell you dude. It's like asking if it's a good idea to get cryogenic frozen before you die. Who the fuck knows, man. Probably won't make a difference, and you have to freeze yourself before you're quite dead yet, so you lose some of your natural life.

So, what I would do is just do your best and maintain your relationship, and if you hit a pothole and the whole thing blows up, at least you tried

>>18424598
>I can't stop anything 1000 miles away.
I'll add that you need to be aware that even if she's right next to you, you can't stop anything. There's got to be trust. Sometimes blind, misguided trust, but there has to be trust, because you can never fully control another person (I mean, unless it's like a vegetable or something), no matter what you think or do.

>>18424598
If she likes you enough, she will not hook up over summer. If she does, then there was nothing keeping you two together to begin with.

Let her prove herself.

>>18424762
She will say that she does like me enough but she can't control herself drunk she's just that type of person, no matter how much she likes me. if she does do something I'll literally have no way of knowing and I'm not ok with that idea

>>18424973
> if she does do something I'll literally have no way of knowing and I'm not ok with that idea

lol, dude..... I wish someone could talk sense into you, but I don't see that happening. I tried. You'll realize one day it doesn't make a fucking difference what you want, it's up to the other person, which is why discerning choices in an individual, and trusting them is the only way to live a healthy life.

Even if she was your literal wife sleeping next to you at night, you wouldn't know what she was doing while you were looking away.