I feel like I am just a burden to women. I ask them out on dates and they say stuff like "I can't, sorry" but they don't say what date or time would work better.
I just feel like I can't brighten a woman's day. I only inconvenience their life. What can I do to go on more successful dates? I have not been on a date in about 10 years. I am 26 now.
Women my age seem so busy. What can I even do?
You have to provide value to them anon, make them laugh talk about things they find interesting, taken them to interesting/nice place dress well take care of your body.
You attract women by being a high quality male.
>>18424237
I understand but I am not even getting the chance to prove I am a high quality male. Which I am probably not?
Strike up casual conversation where you see women, at the supermarket, traveling or join a group or club, try eventbrite or fb groups based on shared interest.
>>18424256
I understand. I just don't know where to begin. My interests are shitty for meeting women. I just want women to give me a fucking chance? I guess I have to earn that chance though v
They'll give you a chance when you bring something to the table.
Focus on bettering yourself and being a confident individual and like minded people will be more inclined to hang out with you. Speaking from a 24yo womans perspective, if im talking to a guy and he doesnt have a sense of self identity or a long term goal then i cant see a relationship going anywhere. People must have common interests to be relatable and to be able to connect with each other.
What im saying is work on yourself - i mean Really WORK at it - and surround yourself with like minded, positive influences. Some of those influences will be women, some will be women who think you're a guy whose fun to hang out with.
Work on yourself and push to be a better man.
Hope this wasnt too preachy
Good luck, hope you find a lady
>>18424207
You're not a burden to women by asking them out, anon. It's something that you HAVE to do the find a mate. In exchange for women not having to be the instigators, they do, often, have to break the bad news when they don't want to date you. That's their end of the bargain. Improve yourself, and keep trying with girls. You'll get there eventually.
>>18424207
It's all about ză attitude dude! You don't ask you demand!!!!!!!!
>>18424248
>not getting the chance
You're getting the chance literally every moment of your life. The moment a girl says "i can't, sorry" is when you should take the hint that you failed to properly display your value. Figure out how to appeal to your strengths.
>>18425043
Thats almost as much as a turn off as m'lady