>me: skinnyfat 5/10 perpetual student, don't dress particularly

you can easily chance the "not dress well" part. and you can also change the "skinnyfat" issue.
so do that for starters.
then you whould keep in mind that girls really arent as visual as guys, so she might genuinely give more fucks about your character and intelligence than your looks.

all in all, she has her reasons for dating you, give her the benefit of the doubt.

THroughout the history of mankind many beautiful women have been with less than attractive men.

Personality does in fact matter, also you can always improve your fashion sense.

How long have you guys been together? I'm sure she doesn't care at all, although like >>18424171
said, dressing better and doing some exercise is good and it will benefit you as well.

>>18424163

YOU STILL HAVE TIME!!! Her attraction for your intellect will definitely not last forever but it will last for a while which is enough time for you to work out dress well blah blah blah so that she doesn't leave you for a more attractive guy. Don't believe anyone who says that appearance doesn't matter and let that trick you into being complacent. Besides if you get rid of this problem you'll be more at ease in your relationship and won't be constantly worrying about whether she'll leave you/cheat on you, which is better for mutual trust as well.

>>18424180
fyi physical attraction is not infinite either. my bf is very handsome and if you've been with someone for a while, you just kind of stop noticing. you don't really look at them anymore, they kind of become an existence more than a body. atleast that's my experience and what female friends tell me.
ofc it would be offputting if he suddenly startet to get negligent with his hygiene. that's just gross. but i wouldn't care if he would get a belly and lose muscles. i might not even notice for a good while. probably till someone mentioned it. what i do care about is him, and what i do notice is if he needs me to rsnt or share sometihing awesome etc. it's really not the biggest reason for being with someone. ofc it never hurts to improve your looks, but some things are just beyond reach and that shouldn't make someone insecure.

>>18424175
Most of the women you speak of were forced to be with those men because they were in positions of power

Money and and intelligence are power. women are attracted to power it tells them you can provide.

>>18424163

If that's you in the picture, you're not skinny fat. You're fat.

Either way, you can start improving yourself (Exercise, dress nicer, neat hair cut or whatever) but your insecurity will probably be what drives her away.
She may actually like you the way you are. Some women like a man just to be a 'different' version of their dad.

also
>>18424203

Keep making money, keep her feeling secure.
If she wanted a 10/10 guy her age, she would have one already.

Don't let your insecurity fuck this up.

Do you dick her good? You'd be amazed how much shit women can keep up with for good dicking

File: the-most-interesting-man-in-the-world-did-you-know-my-girlfriend-is-the-most-beautiful-girl-in-the-w.jpg (41KB, 430x538px) Image search: [Google]

41KB, 430x538px

She's got the face of a haddock though, I suppose if I could push her face into a pillow or put a bag over her head I might Fuck it, she ain't no 9/10 though Chubbz

File: images.jpg (10KB, 284x177px) Image search: [Google]

10KB, 284x177px

Sorry Chubbz I forgot to say... Yeah She'll get bored of you at some point. . But she won't tell you straight away, She won't want to hurt your feelings, so she'll string you along and slowly become bitter and disgusted with your body until it breaks her down.

some really insecure people just date someone worse than them so they can feel better about themselves in comparision

>>18424171
Clothes shopping stresses me right the fuck out. I have no idea what I'm doing and I feel like such a fraud. I'm not even sure how to style myself, and I'm so fussy.

Am working on skinnyfat but losing weight is a lot slower than gaining it.

>>18424177
Chatting for a couple of weeks, and one date. But we're in too deep now, have seriously fallen for each other like, crazy hard.

>>18424190
You make a good point. I'm certainly not unhygenic or gross. I just got a dadbod and need to hit the gym.

>>18424214
>If that's you in the picture, you're not skinny fat. You're fat.
Not me, stock photo. I'm legit skinnyfat. 6' 165lbs, can run two miles, have the upper body definition of a potato and a belly from getting complacent while with my ex.

>>18424163
Lots of people date down to have more control over the relationship, also they sometimes date down because they feel more secure that their partner won't leave/cheat on them.

You're overthinking it, just go with the flow. congrats on the unicorn.

>>18424243
I dicked her like she's never been dicked before. Between the dicking and how head over heels she is for my mind, she's a smitten kitten. I'm just terrified that it's not gonna be enough to stave off the repulsion of my body.

>>18424163
>I'm just not sure her attraction to my intellect is gonna go far enough, when I'm unattractive and kinda boring.
It won't. But if it does, part of the problem then is that she has a much higher sex ranking than you.(sex ranking = your/her attractiveness to the opposite sex). She will know that she doesn't have to maintain that sex ranking because you're punching up.

So eventually she will let herself go, subconsciously thinking that you can never do better than her.

What you should be doing is upping your sex ranking... exercise, dress better, etc... to make yourself more attractive to her and other women. This way she realizes she needs to keep in the game to keep you.

every time some hot man will flirt with her her resentment/hate for you will grow a little until the inevitable end

enjoy it until it lasts OP!

>>18424299
have your gf clothes shop with you??? it is not that hard

>>18424193

Where are you pulling this statistic from?

>>18424304
Maybe, but at the same time, she looks up to me. She's young and looks up to my intelligence, experience, and maturity. She looks up to the way I think and advise her in life. I don't think she thinks shes punching down - I think she feels she's punching up. She's always asking why a guy like me wants to be with a girl like her. I like that.

>>18424326
I'm not in it for her attractiveness. Like I said, we've fallen for each other pretty hard. If she let herself go she'd still be an 8, and i'd still be happy.

>>18424344
I find that intimidating. Embarrassing. I don't wanna admit it's something I'm bad at, because it feels like having style is something you should just innately have without trying. She looks up to me, because I'm older and more intellectual, and it would feel weird to admit that weakness.

>>18424299
>6' 165lbs, can run two miles, have the upper body definition of a potato and a belly from getting complacent while with my ex.

What? Just go to the gym and get some new clothes. Just do it instead of whining. Because I guarantee you the whining and self-pity is what will drive her away, not the dadbod and lack of style. So just fucking go do something.

>>18424311
Then she has all she could ask for. I'm totally average while my gf is above my league looks wise, however before me she has never even had an orgasm from masturbation from other guys. The bliss in her face everytime we have sex is very reassuring to me. I have fucked other girls too who were the same.

I'm not saying that to come of as a sex god, but just to point how a fuckton of girls out there couldn't ask for more than good sex, since apparently most guys just suck at it. If you're average in appearence, good company and good sex, you're above average overall already.

Also keep in mind a ton of hot girls are really insecure too, to the point where they don't even realize how beautiful they are. That's how a lot of them end up with average guys like us, just the fact that we reassure and support them is enough.

>>18425035
Are you me?

>perpetual student
>my mind drives her crazy

I mean, that's what uni is right? The gym but for your mind. You've been working out for like, perpetually, bruh, your mind is FUKKEN SHREDDED AS FUCK, FUCK YEAH BRUH

continue as normal, but slowly get fit and start dressing better

don't make it obvious you're trying to change for her, thats really unattractive

She sounds mentally like a child, I wouldn't worry too much. Just enjoy it while you can since she will probably outgrow you.

>>18425687
t. Bitter KHV