>I work a comfy night shift job where I come home at 3~4 in

>>18423428
Change your sleep schedule. Go to bed when you get home and wake up 8 hours later from that point. Or get a day job.

Don't be a selfish asshole keeping everybody up because your mr special with a night job. Make the necessary sacrifices.

>>18423461
Okay. I guess there isn't any other option.

I just feel like shit towards the end of my shift if I go to bed as soon as I get home. I really like everything about my job, but we don't really have a "first shift".

>>18423472
Maybe eat more or drink some coffee? What if don't go home and go somewhere else for a few hours. When do the people in your house usually wake up?

Hello OP. I work a manly job 7am-4pm and generally have to get up at 5am for work. I crash and burn by about 11pm at the latest and generally go unconscious immediately due to physical exhaustion. My gf has a typical low impact role as a paper herder in an office full of overweight complaining soft handed split arses between the hours of 9am and 5pm and generally has to get up at 8:30am and likes to sit up reading until around 1am-2am because she isn't tired so we get a similar amount of tension with me getting up at 5am and singing in the shower and her 'loudly' reading and deciding she needs to take a shit at 2am.

Firstly, I'm completely unreasonable when I'm half asleep and I'm unaware of what I'm doing. In the defence of your family, if I was woken up by somebody I'd be incoherent and bitchy. Fucking with somebodies sleep schedule is a good way to make them act insane.

Also get some fucking headphones for the TV. But also discuss with them at a rational hour when everybody is coherent and sane that you need a few hours to decompress once you've finished work. Don't try and discuss this with them at 4am.

>>18423472
Don't quit your job. If you wife is in another room and hears the tv then I doubt the tv is on the lowest. Get a tv headset so you can hear it without anyone else hearing it.

If you need to unwind after work, so be it. Sounds like everyone is pissed because they have to get up and work while you sleep. Set up a den on another floor, or man up and put your wife in her place.

Who the fuck watches tv at that hour.
What do you watch desu?
Use headset and watch Youtube like a normal felow.

>>18423428
watch tv downstairs or garage
use headphones
slap your wife
build a cuck shed and watch tv in there