I've been talking to this dude for about a year. Met him while he was in a long distance relationship. The long distance relationship was falling apart because his gf neglected communication a lot and was totally disinterested. Eventually they broke up. We were able to hang out more and did most things a couple would do but he stressed on not knowing what he wanted. Suddenly, ex gf from long distance pops back up saying she wants him back. He pulls away from me.
Why would someone want to be with someone that neglects them and barely communicates versus someone that does communicate and gives attention when it's wanted?
self bump
Because he loves her and you were just a distraction, once she realized she made a mistake and wanted him back of course he would take her back. Best to just move on and find someone else.
So... did you do him? If not move on
>>18422724
because beyond social niceties the prevailing factor is always raw attraction
he's obviously very attracted to his ex and maybe not at all to you, this is stuff that happens at a subconscious and biological level, not something you can talk your way out of
and it's also the key to a happy relationship, there must be raw powerful attraction from both sides, otherwise it's just a waste of time
in your case he obviously is not that attracted to you so if you keep pursuing him you're just wasting your time
Is the new jojo out?
>>18423900
Not yet, AFAIK