Should I leave my fiance?

>>18417317
Met online? Really?
Well on the other hand , let me ask u this. Do u really want to force ur self in a marriage u don't like. Man u only have a limited amount of time on this earth to be happy, don't u want to be happy?
After ur married only 2 out come exists, divorce or live with her for the rest of ur life. Can u do that?

>>18417317
I recommend talking to your fiancee about this and tell her you need some things to change before you're ready to take a vow. You love her enough to get engaged to her, give her a chance to be the wife you need her to be. You have to talk to her and try and resolve these feelings before anything.

As far as being more professional than you used to be, welcome to adulthood. I don't know what you want anybody to tell you about that.

>>18417685
fpbp

>>18417895
>>18417685
actually second post best post... fuck

>>18417317
Alright I'm a literal 18 yr old who's only had one gf but there's a simple thing you need to consider:

Are you happy?

If you're not, communicate. COMMUNICATION IS KEY.
Talk to her about this shit and if she is a bitch about it or refuses to change then do what makes you happy.

>>18417518
Ask yourself this OP, do you really want to take advice from someone who writes like they're 14?

>>18417317
From the way you write I can tell you re a faggot. Man...drop those bitches and be your true faggot self

>>18417317

marrying you fiance isnt going to make her happy unless you put on a 24/7 act for the rest of your life to convince her this isn't some lie.

bvreak up with her. its time. this isn't just cold feet you're experiencing here. dont sign away your life just to please a glorified roommate.

Marriage is a nigthmare that you will have a hard time waking up from. If things are this way now, trust me, please trust me on this, it IS gonna get worse once you marry. I might even be optimistic and say things will just stay the same. What I can say for sure though, is that they won't improve. You want to make this woman happy, but if you ain't managing now that you haven't even marry, you're in for a rude awakening.

>>18417317
Your happiness first, my man. You want to make your fiance happy? Fine, but remember this saying, a healthy doctor is needed to cure the patient.

Be happy first before you tried to make others happy, fool.
You obviously had sparks before, set your woman straight, man. If you couldn't be happy with her after deeply thinking about lots of reason, then move away.

>>18417317
Why are you even in marrying her in the first place if you have very little in common? I guess it's because the cybersex was serious since you met her online.

>>18417685
>>18417904

Absolutely these. Talk to her about it and lay your cards out on the table. Be frank and honest.

The best that could happen is it saves your engagement and future marriage.

The worst that could happen is you two split up - which, if that happens, means you weren't meant to be married anyway.

Really it's a win-win scenario. Just talk to her man

>>18417317

>we used to crush on each other at bad times

This kind of sounds like you both use each other as a security blanket/emotional tampon when things are going badly in your respective relationships. This is not a healthy foundation for a new relationship.

If your relationship doesn't feel right with your current partner, you need to speak to her about this and work out what you want to do. If you want to end the relationship, do so because you see no future with her, not because you think somebody else might be better for you.

>>18417317
Have you set the date?
Have you mailed out invitations?

The closer you get to the date the harder it will be to end it. If you want to end it do it NOW because it will not get any easier.